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UNL grad dies from injuries inflicted in Afghanistan

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BY ART HOVEY and BILL EDDY / Lincoln Journal Star

Tuesday, Dec 02, 2008 - 12:41:12 am CST

A 31-year-old Army captain with family ties to both Nebraska and Guatemala died Monday from wounds suffered Oct. 28 in Afghanistan.

Rob Yllescas, a 2001 graduate of the University of Nebraska-Lincoln ROTC program who was severely injured by an improvised explosive device in the mountains of Afghanistan, died Monday morning at Bethesda Naval Medical Center near Washington, D.C.

On an Internet blog where his family kept friends and the public informed about Yllescas’ condition, his wife, Dena, a native of Osceola, wrote:

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Rob Yllescas

“Well, today Rob went to be with the Lord. Last night his ICP’s went really high and they took him for another CT scan. The scan results were devastating. So, we decided to let him go Home. He went very painlessly and quickly. I don’t know when his funeral will be but it will be in Nebraska in my hometown. I will let you all know the details when I get them. Thank all so much for the thousands of prayers you sent for my husband. We now have an angel looking over us.”

The blog is at http://yllescasfamily.blogspot.com.

President Bush donned a surgical mask to personally present Yllescas with the Purple Heart at  Bethesda Nov. 10. Dena Yllescas was at her husband’s side at the time.

When Rob Yllescas was wounded, he was on his first deployment to Afghanistan, where he commanded about 90 U.S. soldiers and 200 Afghan fighters. When the IED went off,  he  lost his right leg below the knee and his left leg at the knee, among other injuries.

He also had served two tours of duty in Iraq, where he was part of an armored unit.

Dena Yllescas spoke of her husband in a steady voice hours after his death.

“He was an amazing person,” she said. “He truly believed in what he was doing over there. He’s not only an American hero, but he’s also one to our daughters here.”

Julia is 7. Eva is 10 months old.

Rob Yllescas and Dena Gissler, a former lifeguard at the Osceola swimming pool, had their first date when she was a freshman at the University of Nebraska at Kearney. She later transferred to the nursing program at what is now BryanLGH Medical Center in Lincoln to be closer to him.

“We were engaged 11 months after we met. We figured out pretty quick that we were hitting it off.”

Surgeons operated on “a huge clot in the middle of his brain” Saturday. But there was more bleeding in the brain later. “He absolutely would not survive that.”

That’s when the decision was made to disconnect life support equipment.

Dena Yllescas said she would meet with an Army casualty affairs officer today to begin making funeral arrangements at Osceola.

Yllescas was a graduate of Army Ranger school in Georgia.

His family was living in Killeen, Texas, just outside Fort Hood, at the time of his most recent overseas assignment.

Yllescas’ mother, Barb, grew up on an Osceola area farm as part of a family that included four daughters and three sons.

Much of the family gathered in Lincoln Monday, where Barb’s parents, Raymond and Esther Schott, are now retired.

A grandmother, an aunt, an uncle and a cousin took turns offering memories of fat baby cheeks, a young boy’s take-charge attitude, a dedication to country, and the sweet smell of hay that Yllescas helped harvest during summer visits from Guatemala to Nebraska.

“He was a very special boy to all of us,” Esther Schott said, “because he was the oldest of 19 grandchildren. He was always kind of their leader and their hero.

“It’s a very bad day for us today,” she said, “but he’s still our hero and he always will be.”

Rob Yllescas’ father, Otto, a one-time foreign exchange student in Lincoln, stayed on after graduation to attend the University of Nebraska-Lincoln. He and Barb Schott met there and they returned to Guatemala later to his family business obligations.

So strong was the bond that formed with the Schott family after Rob was born that trips to Guatemala became almost as common as the trips other people might make to a distant corner of Nebraska.

Aunt Sarah, now Sarah Hernbloom and a Malcolm school teacher, flew there for the first time with sister Cathy when Sarah was 11 and Cathy was 7. Sarah would eventually go seven times.

“He was like our little brother,” Hernbloom said. As a baby, “he had the fattest, cutest cheeks. We always wanted to kiss him . . . He would look at us and grab his cheeks and just start screaming.”

To her, he was adorable, wonderful and amazing. “He always wanted to be in the military. That was his lifelong dream, to serve. We used to tease him that he would be the dictator of Guatemala.

“He was just one of those kids — he was always kind of take-charge, even as a little boy.“

Uncle Pat Schott, now 48 and of Omaha, drove more than 2,000 miles to Guatemala in 1980.

His nephew will always be special to him, because of  “the love he had for us. And he wanted to do everything in his power in dedication to his country and the people who live here.”

Cousin Carson Schott — now of Seward, and son of Osceola farmer Mark Schott — remembers hay harvest and also his role as matchmaker.

“I had set him and his wife up,” Carson Schott said. “I set them up actually while I was in high school. The first date I went with them I was kind of a third wheel. We went to the demolition derby at the Osceola county fair.”

Family in Nebraska learned that Rob Yllescas’ medical condition had started to deteriorate after Thanksgiving.

“We thought things were looking more hopeful,” said Sarah Hernbloom.

The family had drawn encouragement from the times when he struggled to open his eyes and seemed to be squeezing hands.

When surgery became necessary for the blood clot, said Pat Schott, “I guess we started to prepare a little bit. But we were always thinking positive, that he would be able to pull through this.

“It’s a devastating loss,” he said, “not only to his family, but also to his country.”

Reach Art Hovey at (402) 473-7223 or

ahovey@journalstar.com



Reach Bill Eddy at (402) 473-2651 or


beddy@journalstar.com


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Brian wrote on December 1, 2008 6:26 pm:
" Many thoughts and prayers to the family of one who gave all! "

Micheal Q wrote on December 1, 2008 6:27 pm:
" My prayer's go out to the family! I too have a sister & brother-in-law in the Army stationed at Fort Hood. Tomorrow is not promised to anyone as we should cherish each day as if it were our last. "

So sorry wrote on December 1, 2008 7:17 pm:
" Just want you to know that I'm so very sorry for your loss. May God be with you as you go through these difficult days. "

AJ wrote on December 1, 2008 7:40 pm:
" RIP soldier. Thank you "

Jean wrote on December 1, 2008 8:58 pm:
" My heart breaks for you....thank you to the family and friends who love this man who gave the ultimate sacrafice. He knew fully the extent of his miltary service. This is the ultimate courage. The family blog displays that same courage as well. God Speed to each one of you. May you be comforted. "

Dan wrote on December 1, 2008 11:07 pm:
" I hate this war. "

HuskerInIraq wrote on December 2, 2008 12:38 am:
" He was a true American hero. Rest In Peace CPT Yllescas. "

Gold Star Family to another wrote on December 2, 2008 7:56 am:
" God bless you and your hero. He has gone home to be with our fallen hero and all those who came before and after him. He will continue to serve from above. He is a true American Hero. It never gets easier, but reach out to those who have stood where you are and it is easier to be stronger. I know I speak for many other gold star families, our love and our thoughts and prayers are with you now and forever. YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN! "

Dana D wrote on December 2, 2008 8:18 am:
" God bless you and your family during this difficult time. Amen. "

Sorry wrote on December 2, 2008 8:30 am:
" RIP Rob, you will be missed. "

Teach wrote on December 2, 2008 9:04 am:
" My heart and thoughts are with your family. We owe so much for the sacrifices of a few. "

Bryan wrote on December 2, 2008 9:28 am:
" Thank you isn't nearly enough, we take for granted those sacrifices made for us, so please take another moment now to remember, and in the future for those still surviving with their scars, both mental and physical. Thank you Rob, for giving all! "

Nina wrote on December 2, 2008 9:59 am:
" Beautiful family - I saw their family pic on TV. Tragic loss, and I hope all the relatives and community members help those little children know what a hero their Dad was, and how much he loved them. His wife's nurses training helped her make the right decision to let him go when it was time. She's a brave soldier, too - bless her, her angel husband, and their dear children. "

Cheryl wrote on December 2, 2008 10:47 am:
" To the Family of Rob Yllescas: I am so very sorry for you loss. May God Bless you "

Sigh wrote on December 2, 2008 11:03 am:
" God bless this family and all of the military families. We owe them so much. May Rob rest in peace. "

Mark wrote on December 2, 2008 3:19 pm:
" My God bless you and your family. We weep with you but our hearts are
truely greatful for the brave men like you Rob.
Rest in peace Soldier "

Andrew J Aguirre SFC Ret wrote on December 2, 2008 3:38 pm:
" Our prayers and condolences and your Warrior's courage and sacrifice will always be remembered; there is no nobler act in life compared to leading Troops in combat. "

sad wrote on December 2, 2008 4:21 pm:
" I strongly suggest visiting the blog. It is a sad yet amazing story of such great strong people.
Your family is in my prayers. "

Altin wrote on December 2, 2008 9:35 pm:
" I am very sorry for your loss. May God bless your family and bring His peace and comfort in your family. "

Mew wrote on December 3, 2008 1:53 pm:
" Many hugs and prayers are with this family. Rob died doing what he loved to do and was able to pass peacefully w/his family at his side. There is no greater gift. His ultimate sacrifice will not be forgotten. Rob is an American Hero. "

marine mom wrote on December 5, 2008 1:13 am:
" My prayers are with the family of Cpt Yllescas, a true American hero, his sacrifice will not be forgotten. God Bless this family. "

Jeff from Texas wrote on December 5, 2008 4:12 pm:
" There are never the right words to express how one feels when another has lost a loved-one.
I am writing today to express my heart-felt condolences for your loss. I am also writing to tell you that your faith in God has been a blessing for me. I have followed your blog since it was first posted on Blackfive.net. Your strength throughout this whole time has come from God and He is with you now more than ever. Seek Him for comfort, guidance, wisdom and strength.
We, the people of this great country, owe you and your family a debt we will never be able to pay. Saying we are forever grateful doesn't come close, but words are all we have.
You and your girls have been in my prayers and will continue to remain there. Your service and sacrifice are recognized and greatly appreciated. I thank you for your faith, strength and courage through this most difficult of times.
May God bless you and keep you.
Jeff from Texas "