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Saturday, Nov 15, 2008 - 12:52:29 am CST

Ian is a Christian who says he is highly spiritual but not at all religious.

Unfortunately for churches, there are a lot of Ians out there.

A new worldwide benchmark survey finds that 55 percent of young people ages 12 to 25 say they are more spiritual now than two years ago. But nearly one-third of the young people said they don’t trust organized religion.

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A survey by the Center for Spiritual Development in Childhood and Adolescence found that participants said they feel most spiritual when "spending time in nature," not in church. (photos.com)

“If that’s the way they really feel, it means that we have some serious questions that we need to ask ourselves,” said Terry Dittmer, national director of youth ministry for the Lutheran Church-Missouri Synod.

The survey, believed to be the first of its kind in the world, was conducted by the Minneapolis-based Search Institute and released Nov. 5 at the four-day Healthy Communities-Healthy Youth Conference. Peter Benson and Gene Roehlkepartain, co-directors of the institute’s Center for Spiritual Development in Childhood and Adolescence, said it will take several months, if not years, of serious number-crunching to figure out all of the study’s implications.

“This work is still in the emergent stage,” Roehlkepartain said. He said the institute hopes to use the data as a baseline for follow-up surveys that will be conducted every two years. “This is our first coming-out party.”

The survey included 6,853 young people in 17 countries across six continents. They voiced their views through focus groups, interviews and surveys.

The first question was, “What does it mean to be spiritual?” The nine choices ranged from “believing in God” to “being true to one’s inner self.” They also could say that there is no spiritual dimension, and there was an “I don’t know” option.

The good news for faith communities is that 93 percent of the young people surveyed believe there is a spiritual aspect to life.

But the disconnect between spirituality and religion was clear in the comments from Ian and other young people interviewed for the survey.

Another interviewee, Gaurav, said he is “practically religious” in that he follows his Hindu faith’s traditions, but he’s not “spiritually religious.” Amneh has rejected many of her religion’s traditions as sexist but said she still adheres to the teachings of Islam.

Benson said he wasn’t surprised that many young people drew a line between spirituality and religion.

“Spirituality is bigger than religion,” he said. “One of the things we have to focus on now is disentangling spiritual development from religious development.”

That comes with age and life experiences, said Cameron McDaniel, director of youth ministries at Eastridge Presbyterian Church in Lincoln.

“Overall, the younger generation often finds spirituality more important than religion,” said McDaniel, 24. “They view it as more rewarding. To live a Christ-centered life you need to bridge the gap and find the balance of religion and spirituality. Younger people are often struggling to find a church service that meets their spiritual needs.”

And McDaniel doesn’t see that spiritual-religious gap as necessarily a bad thing.

“Everybody is going to worship differently. As long as we are focused on the same God and the same Bible scripture, there is no right or wrong way to get to that worship,” he said.

More people use the word “spirituality” to define themselves because it does not have some of the negative connotations that “being religious” does, said Scott Guenther, director of high school ministries at Messiah Lutheran Church in Lincoln. Young people share that feeling that “God is instilled in all of us and we need him,” but are less comfortable associating that feeling with religion.

Miriam Cameron, a professor at the University of Minnesota’s Center for Spirituality & Healing, said the survey’s results confirm what she has observed in her classes.

“Many of my students equate religion with dogma and spirituality with harmony,” she said. But speaking as the daughter of a minister, she said she doesn’t think religions need to feel threatened by the growth of spirituality.

“Not at all,” she said. “Spirituality works well with most religions. The only ones it doesn’t work with are the angry people who say that everyone else’s image of God is wrong. ... The spiritual view of God is much more inclusive.”

If the youth don’t feel spiritual in church, where do they?

“Spending time in nature” topped the list of responses. “Listening to or playing music” was No. 2, and “helping other people or the community” was third. “Attending religious services” was ninth on the list of the top 12 most-frequent answers.

Students don’t find that line between spirituality and religion all that surprising.

“For me, that’s very true,” said Jon Delperdang, a student in the Mindfulness Meditation Club at the University of Minnesota. “I’ve developed a strong belief in the interconnectedness of the world.”

The theory that everything and everyone is part of a larger whole is what sets spirituality off from most religions, said David Horn, a senior at the University of Minnesota. “It doesn’t make distinctions, and religion is all about making distinctions.”

Ty Thomas, youth pastor at Lincoln’s Berean Church, says today’s young people want to be part of something bigger than themselves, and they see that as something spiritual.

“They use words like ‘rise up’ and ‘freedom,’” Thomas said. They initiate grassroots movements to help people all over the world, rather than simply focus only on their own little corner of the world.

“I feel like people are going to do great things with their lives,” Thomas said. “One of the thing we realize in the youth ministry is that it is not enough anymore for us to tell students to ‘live good lives and not do bad things.’ They are really wanting to be mobilized as a generation to accomplish great things.”

It’s more than a Christian value; it is a generational value, he said.

Thomas recalled a Berean youth mission trip last year in which Lincoln students visited a remote rural community in Costa Rica. For nine days they saw how other kids survived not only without iPhones and iPods, but without beds.

“It was a really forming thing for these kids,” Thomas said.

And it is this global perspective of spirituality that Thomas says will change the world.

“I do believe we will see a change. Part of the idea that the United States is always right and always the best, that is changing. Our students don’t believe that anymore — in a healthy way. They still love their country, but they realize other countries can also be great and you can learn from them.

“I think we will see more humility and collaboration in the coming years,” he said. “I think we’ll see technology used as a catalyst for unity.”

So how should faith communities respond to these trends with young people? The Center for Spiritual Development stopped short of offering specific advice for churches, but it suggest that the place to start is with conversations. The report recommends asking young people open-ended questions, such as “What does being spiritual mean to you?” and “What is most important in your life?”

“We’re not paying enough attention to what our kids are saying,” Roehlkepartain said. “We need to listen more and talk less.”

Lincoln’s McDaniel agreed.

“Our job as youth group leaders and workers and Sunday school teachers as involved disciples for Christ is to take advantage of the huge number of spiritual (youth) and bring the religious aspect into it,” McDaniel said. “If kids are spiritual and believe in a higher power, our job is to take advantage and say, ‘You’re halfway there.’ Be the bridge to bring them into the religious part.”

Guenther said churches need to always re-examine what they are doing.

“But the essential message should stay the same,” he said. “Kids are trying to strip away some of the extras in religion and get down to what is the essential message — and that message isn’t going to go away.”

Erin Andersen contributed to this story. Reach her at 473-7217 or eandersen@journalstar.com.


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one of them wrote on November 15, 2008 4:11 am:
" i agree with the comments about separation of spirituality and religion. I know for myself and my friends we believe and God and Christ but have a hard time with the idea of choosing one brand of Christianity and seperating ourselves from the rest of humanity in an us vs. them way. If God made me and Jesus loves me then it is the same for all people no matter what they look like, what religion they are, how they worship or even if they worship. "

DOC wrote on November 15, 2008 7:47 am:
" People need to remember that Jesus didn't come to take sides, He came to take over. He said, I am the way, not I am one of many ways. You teach that and show the power, all ages will follow Him. "

Found the real meaning of living and spirituality wrote on November 15, 2008 8:01 am:
" This is a rediculous question "How should our churches address that" the churches of different denominations were not setup to bend to the wants of people. It isn't entertainment time or at least it shouldn't be if you are a Christian. Sadly this is the bogus headlines and articles that cloud the minds of those who might be seeking God aka "A higher power". If you walk into a place with the prevoncieved notion that they are there for your will, your way, your wants then you might as well never leave home and continue being wrapped up in this material world of greed, lust, envy, hate, bitterness, and lonelyness.

There is a reason the bible says it is harder for a rich man to enter the kingdom of heaven then a poor man. If you are young, dumb, think the world revolves around you then eventually you will be humbled when you grow up and have to deal in a very hard knock world where most people honestly don't care about you nor your little world because they are to wrapped up in their own little world. Stop living life for your self for a change and live life for everyone but your self and you'll wake up real fast to learn what real living is all about. Doing something not for your own gain, desire, intrest, or wellbeing is what will set you in motion to find the true God and the true religion that isn't self serving.

It is what we make of it so if you don't like where you are at with it then you need to change. You are the only one you have full authority over to modify or bend so start in your own world first and try to step out of it first to reach out to someone else. "

meneither wrote on November 15, 2008 9:05 am:
" I am middleaged and I am not religious per say. I do believe but I don't go to church because of the way I am treated. I have tried different churches and 'they' make me feel like I am not one of 'them'. If you are new 'they' hold you at arms length, and that is fine. They don't know you, but even when they get to know you, (I am a widow with a child), they hold you out even further. I don't like to be snubbed when I am going to Christ's house for hopefully the same reason they are attending.
We are all the same is God's eyes, aren't we?
So, I stay home and talk to God there. At least I don't have to worry about having to make conversation where I am no welcome. "

Science is Golden wrote on November 15, 2008 1:34 pm:
" 25 years ago, the Catholic church started telling the congregation how to vote. I know. I was there. Hasta la vista, baby!

There seems to be more crooks and perverts in Religion these days, than on Wall Street. Perhaps this is part of the reason for the spiritual dissention.

As a Humanitarian Atheist, who's been happily married for 26 years, I am much happier that I don't have to concern myself with Bronze-Age Mythology. "

Ned wrote on November 15, 2008 2:37 pm:
" Worship and Christ and god and the bible and church and preachers have nothing to do with reality and what is important. Reality is spirituality and it takes into account that there is an Earth and ourselves and energy and a oneness with the whole universe and we are all a part or maybe all of the universe. We create our own heaven or our own hell. No one does it "to" us. "

Rockwell wrote on November 15, 2008 3:26 pm:
" This is truely great news. They do not believe in the opression of people based on political party, sexual orientation, stance on abortion, race, gender, etc.

christians, your control over this country is at an end - long may it be so "

Lutheran wrote on November 15, 2008 3:52 pm:
" I like going to what we call the Room 211 service @ Christ Lutheran Church (43rd & Sumner). It is very modern with a band and a lot of drama and videos for the sermon.
The band has even done 2 CD's and my children like listening to them. "

Matt P. wrote on November 15, 2008 4:36 pm:
" You are an idiot if you think that religions "don't bend toward the will of the people!!" Why do you think all the different religions exist? Do you honestly think its because god or christ came down and said, "look I want 57 different religions with different view on my existence and levels of interaction with the universe??" Really??

The different religions exist BECAUSE of the different beliefs of the different peoples across the globe. You are truly ignorant if you think its the other way around.

These young people's "spirituality" isn't born out of self centeredness or selfishness. It comes from growing up in a time where science has demystified much of the universe. There are so so so many things in the bible that are simply not true they find it extremely hard to follow the bible(or any other religious texts) wholeheartedly.

Yet they do believe in soemthing greater. I think this is great! This is how a belief system should work. Religion is essentially social politics that have been projected on an underlying spiritual belief. The "kids" basically realize that god or whatever higher power there may be probably doesn't really care if you pray the rosary, go to church on saturday or sunday, end a prayer a certain way, or refuse to eat fish on fridays.

Sorry to say, but their feelings of spirituality display much more "faith" and deeper connection to god or whatever high power than your superficial hand signing and recitation verbatim of a prayer.

And as far as your contention that this is limited to "kids" and young people, well, that's just unbelievably ignorant. This idea of "spirituality" is something that has been embraced by some of the greatest thinkers in human history. Maybe this trend simply shows that the population as a whole is finally evolving past the ridiculous dogma that has pervaded for the last 1000 years. "

TV watcher wrote on November 15, 2008 5:36 pm:
" Spirituality doesn't have to emerge from comedy, criticism or "arranged relationships" like in mass media, a source of many problems than is commonly acknowledged. "

Rp wrote on November 15, 2008 5:53 pm:
" One reason today's young people don't "believe" in organized religion is that they have been watching their parents, teachers, coaches, youth leaders all those adults that they are in contact with who behave one way on Sunday. Bro & Sis Christian, and then as soon as Monday comes around, (sometimes sooner, sometimes before you can get out of the church parking lot) the REAL people emerge. And NOBODY likes those people, much less these young people who are trying to walk the Christian walk, but hey, if Mom & Dad, teacher, Coach and Youth Leader can pull off the double talk then why should they try ? Bottom line? If you want to get thru to today's youth, follow the Word..."let your yes be yes and your no be no." then live it! "

E Jr wrote on November 15, 2008 6:08 pm:
" I don't know who said it, but I heard a quote that went something like this. "Man couldn't invent a flea, but he has invented gods by the dozens." "

Shane S. wrote on November 15, 2008 7:05 pm:
" This is a very interesting story, and I'm sure it is one that has been true for a number of years. I can certainly see where folks are seeing this difference. I too feel far more spiritual than I do "religious", I've often been told Religion is "man made" and Spirituality is " God made". I find it very very difficult to attend a religious worship where I don't feel welcome, because if they really knew me they would, not have anything to do with me. They would judge me even more. The more "spiritual" I am the more non - judgemental I become. Now I am not gonna "bash" religion I know a number of people who do "get" the message in Church but I believe they in the minority.
How many times have you heard? " If you aren't a good Catholic what good are you", or " if you aren't a good Baptist, or Methodist, or any other denomination". I'm pretty darn sure all those " religions" know about God, I'm not so sure God knows about those "religions". "

OM wrote on November 15, 2008 9:12 pm:
" Enlightenment defies explanation and requires no justification. It comes when judgement ends and awareness conquers predjudice. "

Food for Thought wrote on November 15, 2008 9:32 pm:
" I'm wondering why it is that when we speak of our youth and spirituality, we automatically assume that this spirituality belongs to Christianity. Many of us spiritual youth have nothing to do with Christianity. We might hold to the same basic moral codes, since many of these codes are the same in most of the world's differing religions, but we don't have to be Christians to be spiritual. "

DJ wrote on November 16, 2008 6:25 am:
" "And it is this global perspective of spirituality that Thomas says will change the world." Let's hope it's not This spirituality they are talking about:
http://www.americanthinker.com/2008/11/orwells_children.html "

WCG wrote on November 16, 2008 7:59 am:
" Unfortunately, most of these people don't go far enough. Why believe in an ancient myth - or even a modern myth - in the first place? Why not go with rational, evidence-based thinking? You can still experience 'spiritual' feelings, when your emotions are struck. But there's nothing supernatural about it.

Religion - organized or not - is just wishful thinking. I'm glad to see young people rejecting organized religion, with its ancient tribal myths and morality, but they remain vulnerable to scam artists and pseudoscience unless they adopt rational, evidence-based thinking. Scientists have learned how to separate truth from belief, and that's why science has advanced so dramatically in recent centuries. Religion, organized or not, cannot or will not do that, and so religions have to be dragged along, kicking and screaming, as civilizations progress. I really don't get it. Reality is quite wonderful enough. So why choose fantasy at all? "

Big Red Redneck wrote on November 16, 2008 2:13 pm:
" Science is Golden calls himself/herself a "Humanitarian Atheist" who doesn't have to be concerned with "Bronze-Age Mythology." Well, whoopdedoo! Please, Science is Golden, pray tell us what brand of mythology you are concerned with.
Whatever it is, I bet it's a real barrel of laughs. "