Letters, 11/19: Prevent need for safe haven
The Nebraska Legislature is in session to make adjustments to the safe haven law. I salute the Journal Star editorial (Nov. 14) that commented that no simple age change is going to obliterate the issues that have contributed to the dropoff of more than 30 youth, none infants, under the auspices of this legislation. Certainly, there are both personal and political adjustments needed to do more than merely sweep the debacle under the proverbial carpet.
Let me put forth another idea … and one that might be put in the category of prevention. Research shows that children born to a young, undereducated, single parent are much more likely to consider their childhoods unhappy and to resort to criminal activity. Somewhere between “unhappy” and “criminal” exists the state of behavioral maladjustment and challenge that seems to be behind many of the safe haven dropoffs.
The likelihood that unprepared youth will, themselves, become parents is increased by the zealous messaging of the pro-life community that exalts infancy and its beauty, simplifying the fact that parenting is a really tough job and that even the best of parents have no guarantee that their child will escape behavioral and mental turmoil.
I am pro-choice and subscribe to the statistically validated belief that, given a choice, pregnant women know if they have what is needed to nurture and raise a child. I hope those individuals who are profoundly pro-life become as zealous in seeking the services needed to remedy the trials that have resulted in the abandonment of these more than 30 youngsters as they are in calling for their births.
Mary King, Lincoln
Wait to judge after action
Regarding the Nov. 7 letter, “Obama wins, America loses,” I wonder if Gail Skinner has taught his children and grandchildren not to judge people based upon perception but rather on their actions.
Barack Obama doesn’t even take office for another two months and already Skinner has him leading people to the welfare office, discriminating against others, taking away religious freedom, encouraging abortions and not loving his country. Obviously, most Americans don’t subscribe to these beliefs, otherwise Sen. Obama would not be President-elect Obama.
Time will tell as to what kind of president he turns out to be, but I believe he will do great things for our country. It is much easier, on the other hand, to judge President Bush’s performance: a misguided and mismanaged war in Iraq with more than 4,000 brave soldiers killed, devastated families and communities, a country in financial crisis and our standing in the world greatly damaged.
I, too, hope and pray (for all children and grandchildren) that a more tolerant, caring, prosperous and proud America emerges these next four years.
Mike Mild, Denton
Form own moral opinions
Thanks to Merlyn Braunsroth (letters, Nov. 12), I have recently learned that we are no longer a Christian nation. However, I am a little upset to find out that we ever were a Christian nation. I thought church and state were separated by our founding fathers.
I don’t think “Christian moral values” have anything to do with why this country is great. Maybe you are referring to the “Christian moral values” that drove the people who would become Americans away from Europe.
I think it’s time we end the idea that church-going Christians have the market cornered on morality. Things aren’t all black and white. We need to think for ourselves and not just form all of our decisions around “Jesus said so.”
Justin Walsh, Lincoln

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Christian Nation wrote on November 19, 2008 6:27 am:
Pro Life wrote on November 19, 2008 6:29 am:
mitchy_v wrote on November 19, 2008 7:31 am:
To Christian Nation wrote on November 19, 2008 7:32 am:
Zoomie wrote on November 19, 2008 7:38 am:
So, Christian Nation...if those Founding Fathers were all so Christian, and intended this to be a Christian nation, can you point us all to the obvious references to Christ in the Declaration of Independence? How about all the refs to Jesus in the Constitution? Oh, yeah! THERE ARE NONE!!! If as you claim, they were all so Christian, why would such learned men, writing what even they considered to be a great document like the Constitution (and even making more clear their intent with the Bill of Rights), how exactly did they apparently overlook references to Jesus Christ, which would have made cristal clear their intent this be a Christian Nation? "
Err wrote on November 19, 2008 7:43 am:
Another thought wrote on November 19, 2008 7:48 am:
stignob wrote on November 19, 2008 8:09 am:
You cant force good judgement wrote on November 19, 2008 8:11 am:
As for not wanting the baby to "pay" for the mistakes of the mother, who "pays" when the low income teenage mom keeps the baby? Who "pays" when the mom can't put food on the table? Who "pays" when the mom goes through abusive boyfriends? Who "pays" when mom gets pregnant over and over again by different guys? Who "pays" when dad doesn't pay child support? Who "pays" when mom can't get a job because she didn't finish high school and misses work all the time? Who "pays" when the kid grows up in a bad neighborhood and gets shot in a drive-by shooting? Who "pays" when that baby grows up and gets pregnant at 16 because that's the example she's grown up with? Who "pays" when the kid who has been surrounded by violence and poverty all their life starts carrying a gun...
Its a vicious, predictable cycle. Fix just one of the steps in the cycle and I'll reconsider your opinion. "
Jack wrote on November 19, 2008 8:35 am:
Jody P. wrote on November 19, 2008 8:47 am:
Sue wrote on November 19, 2008 8:49 am:
Heres a quote wrote on November 19, 2008 8:54 am:
Macy wrote on November 19, 2008 8:55 am:
Religiosity wrote on November 19, 2008 8:59 am:
What religion were those who slaughtered the Native American and the Buffalo?
Also curious as to what religion those who kidnapped and sold the slaves were?
Apparently there were thousands of people around back then, without any moral compass. "
peb wrote on November 19, 2008 9:06 am:
Our Christian Founding Fathers wrote on November 19, 2008 9:07 am:
"Christianity neither is, nor ever was a part of the common law." -Thomas Jefferson
"Lighthouses are more helpful than churches." and
"In the affairs of the world, men are saved, not by faith, but by the lack of it." -George Washington
"This would be the best of all possible worlds, if there were no religion in it." -John Adams
This is but just a few. I would recomment reading some more of those history books. Not to mention that sticky little line in the Treaty of Tripoli, Article 11: "As the Government of the United States of America is not, in any sense, founded on the Christian religion[...]" "
To Another thought wrote on November 19, 2008 9:17 am:
I can't stand to see those comments about women and girls 'getting themselves' pregnant, so work on that. "
Disgusted Too wrote on November 19, 2008 9:46 am:
your right stigy wrote on November 19, 2008 10:03 am:
"Millions of innocent men, women and children, since the introduction of Christianity, have been burnt, tortured, fined and imprisoned; yet we have not advanced one inch towards uniformity. " Thomas Jefferson
Here is another one from Thomas Jeffeson
"Where the preamble declares, that coercion is a departure from the plan of the holy author of our religion, an amendment was proposed by inserting "Jesus Christ," so that it would read "A departure from the plan of Jesus Christ, the holy author of our religion;" the insertion was rejected by the great majority, in proof that they meant to comprehend, within the mantle of its protection, the Jew and the Gentile, the Christian and Mohammedan, the Hindoo and Infidel of every denomination."
"I do not believe in the creed professed by the Jewish Church, by the Roman Church, by the Greek Church, by the Turkish Church, by the Protestant Church, nor by any Church that I know of. My own mind is my own Church." Thomas Paine
"I almost shudder at the thought of alluding to the most fatal example of the abuses of grief which the history of mankind has preserved--the Cross. Consider what calamities that engine of grief has produced! "
-John Adams
Look at all the christian Founding Fathers! Wow, they loved their bible and their jeebus. Or could it be you listen to the religious right and their mouth pieces at faux news too much? Turn off the billorushohannity. "
Rockwell wrote on November 19, 2008 10:17 am:
You go practice your faith in your home or church (as is your right)- but I will fight every inch of the way any attempt to impose your religous beliefs on others via the government of the people. "
Kim M wrote on November 19, 2008 10:31 am:
This is the same problem that affects the school system. Under Nebraska State law a child is entitled to all services they need from all the ESU's in the state. However the ESU's aren't allowed to suggest to a parent that they check into and use the services. If it hadn't been for the fact that my pediatrician used them for help for her twins my child might have been more delayed than he was.
Why is it that we can see all kinds of ads and every body knows about Planned Parenthood but no one knows where to turn to for the help their child needs?
You can get ESU services almost from birth. My child started getting help at 2 months. Why don't we here more about the agencies our children need? "
stignob wrote on November 19, 2008 10:44 am:
"I have examined all religions, as well as my narrow sphere, my straightened means, and my busy life, would allow; and the result is that the Bible is the best Book in the world. It contains more philosophy than all the libraries I have seen." December 25, 1813 letter to Thomas Jefferson
“ The general principles upon which the Fathers achieved independence were the general principals of Christianity… I will avow that I believed and now believe that those general principles of Christianity are as eternal and immutable as the existence and attributes of God.”
• “[July 4th] ought to be commemorated as the day of deliverance by solemn acts of devotion to God Almighty.”
–John Adams in a letter written to Abigail on the day the Declaration was approved by Congress "
Julie wrote on November 19, 2008 11:11 am:
Kim M wrote on November 19, 2008 11:20 am:
Same for the President V-pres-all sworn on the BIBLE
What were the last 4 words?????? "
So Kim wrote on November 19, 2008 12:08 pm:
So help me god wrote on November 19, 2008 12:11 pm:
To Kim M wrote on November 19, 2008 12:25 pm:
Whatever wrote on November 19, 2008 12:30 pm:
Jeff wrote on November 19, 2008 12:36 pm:
Nice try Kim wrote on November 19, 2008 12:37 pm:
The Constitution does not contain a specific oath for Congress, only the requirement that they "shall be bound by Oath or Affirmation, to support this Constitution."
So far as swearing on the Bible, there is no such requirement. The public swearing-in ceremony consists of Representatives raising their right hands and repeating the oath of office. No religious texts are used. Some members of Congress later hold separate private ceremonies for photo ops. When Keith Ellison was elected, he used a Quran in his private ceremony.
And most significantly, holding a belief in God is not synonymous with Christianity. "
ImJustin2 wrote on November 19, 2008 12:37 pm:
Jeffersons Wall of Seperation wrote on November 19, 2008 12:52 pm:
Kim M wrote on November 19, 2008 1:03 pm:
Yes i too believe there is only 1 God. Whether you are 'Christion"-Jewish-Muslim etc. We just call them different names.
However the point being-We swear on the BiBle for Government Offices. Our pledge states One Nation Under GOD....
THe Supreme Court Building has statues of Moses holding the Ten Commandments. Where is the seperation of Church and State there?
We Do Not Say One Nation Under Buddah OR Allah at least not yet........ Should we change the very foundation Our Great Country was formed on. "
Zoomie wrote on November 19, 2008 1:09 pm:
Problem is, no one is disagreeing with that! The discussion is - were the Founding Fathers mostly Christian and did they intend the U.S. to be a Christian nation? And nothing you've posted says otherwise than the consensus here, which is No, they did NOT intend this to be a Christian nation! Why would they, since many (perhaps most) weren't even Christians! So before getting yourself all in a lather in opposition to the lefties, perhaps you should see if you're not actually agreeing with them, even as you try to insult them! Because, ultimately, it isn't the lefties who look a bit foolish, Stiggie... "
Hop wrote on November 19, 2008 1:12 pm:
This is the second time I've seen the supposed quote attributed to Thomas Jefferson, 'Christianity is the most vile and corrupt system that has ever shone on man.' in this comment section. After some considerable research I can find no reference to this quote anywhere on the web.
Your quote seems to significantly conflict with these two documented Jefferson quotes:
"Religion is a subject on which I have ever been most scrupulously reserved. I have considered it as a matter between every man and his Maker in which no other, and far less the public, had a right to intermeddle." --Thomas Jefferson to Richard Rush, 1813.
AND
"The Christian religion, when divested of the rags in which they [the clergy] have enveloped it, and brought to the original purity and simplicity of it's benevolent institutor, is a religion of all others most friendly to liberty, science, and the freest expansion of the human mind." --Thomas Jefferson to Moses Robinson, 1801. "
JohnR wrote on November 19, 2008 1:33 pm:
Wealth distribution? You mean like when Republicans take billions of our tax dollars and use them to reward Halliburton for building showers for our soldiers in Iraq that electrocute them? Every politician "redistributes" wealth! And besides, wealth redistribution isn't socialism (dictionary defines it as an economic system whereby the gov't owns the means of production...so I guess Bush is a socialist!).
Sign the Freedom of Choice Initiative? Which is what? Do you mean the Freedom of Choice Act (S.1173)? If so, it is sitting in the Judiciary Committee, and has never even been voted on in the Senate, much less the House, so how exactly is Obama going to sign something that isn't even a Congressionally approved bill yet? "
Zoomie wrote on November 19, 2008 1:42 pm:
But you're still ducking the actual question - if we're a Christian Nation, and the Founding Fathers intended us to be a Christian Nation, where is ANY reference to Jesus Christ in any governmental founding document??? And what Bible do I think they meant? Well, if you're Jewish, a really, really different Bible than Christians use! And for that matter, even the Catholic and most Protestant Bibles are different! So I guess I'd like to know, which Bible do YOU think they meant! "
CS wrote on November 19, 2008 1:44 pm:
JohnR wrote on November 19, 2008 1:53 pm:
“In every country and in every age the priest has been hostile to liberty; he is always in allegiance to the despot, abetting his abuses in return for protection of his own”
or
"We discover (in the gospels) a groundwork of vulgar ignorance, of things impossible, of superstition, fanaticism and fabrication”
or
“The Christian God is a being of terrific character - cruel, vindictive, capricious, and unjust” "
Demon wrote on November 19, 2008 2:10 pm:
The gist of Mr. Mild's (apt name) letter was, let's wait until Obama actually takes office and does something before we start criticizing.
Oh the horror!
How can he be that mean spirited? "
To Hop wrote on November 19, 2008 2:11 pm:
"...those who live by mystery & charlatanerie, fearing you would render them useless by simplifying the Christian philosophy, the most sublime & benevolent, but most perverted system that ever shone on man, endeavored to crush your well earnt, & well deserved fame." - Thomas Jefferson to Joseph Priestley, Washington, 21 March 1801 "
CS wrote on November 19, 2008 2:12 pm:
CS wrote on November 19, 2008 2:22 pm:
most perverted system that ever shone upon man.'' You didnt look very hard, Hop- I found it in about 5 minutes. Jefferson's letter to Joseph Priestly, March 21st 1801, referenced also in a letter from John Q. Adams to Jefferson on July 16th 1813. Here is the text of the Jefferson letter to Priestly: http://www.let.rug.nl/usa/P/tj3/writings/brf/jefl137.htm. "
MarkyMark wrote on November 19, 2008 2:42 pm:
Religion has no place in government. One has to look no further than the Middle East to see what a disasterous mix that is.
Who cares what any of the founding fathers religious views were. As long as it is kept out of our Government, all is well. "
STF wrote on November 19, 2008 3:22 pm:
Lenin wrote on November 19, 2008 3:55 pm:
dfb wrote on November 19, 2008 4:09 pm:
"I do solemnly swear (or affirm) that I will faithfully execute the Office of President of the United States, and will to the best of my Ability, preserve, protect and defend the Constitution of the United States."
No where in there is your 4 word reference. The president is not even required to have a "Bible" or any book present although most do.
Under Article 6, the Constitution states what type of oath or affirmation that members of congress and others take. It is:
"The Senators and Representatives before mentioned, and the Members of the several State Legislatures, and all executive and judicial Officers, both of the United States and of the several States, shall be bound by Oath or Affirmation, to support this Constitution; but no religious Test shall ever be required as a Qualification to any Office or public Trust under the United States."
It even goes as far as stating that there is no "religious test" is required.
Now, where does it state they must have to use your 4 word phrase? "
Nina wrote on November 19, 2008 4:14 pm:
WHY wrote on November 19, 2008 4:41 pm:
Hop wrote on November 19, 2008 4:47 pm:
Nice try, but Jefferson was talking about the clergy, which is not the same as Christianity. The full quote is: "Those who live by mystery and charlatanerie, fearing you would render them useless by simplifying the Christian philosophy,—the most sublime and benevolent, but most perverted, system that ever shone on man,—endeavored to crush your well-earned and well-deserved fame."
Jefferson is saying that Christianity had been “perverted” by its orthodox doctrines like the Trinity, Incarnation and Atonement and once those are stripped away contains some of the most benevolent, sublime and moral teachings.
That's a far, far, FAR cry from 'Christianity is the most vile and corrupt system ever to have shone upon man.' or even your truncated quote. "
For the record Im Adopted wrote on November 19, 2008 6:20 pm:
Why aren't the fathers being blamed? Easy they can walk away. They don't get morning sickness, give birth, get scolded by society. Nobody calls them a slut or worse. In fact our society makes them heros. Real studs!! "
CS wrote on November 19, 2008 7:12 pm:
Hop wrote on November 20, 2008 11:52 am:
I'd also say that while Thomas Jefferson was a great man in many ways, he was also flawed. That a man who wrote so eloquently about freedom and liberty would also own slaves and father children by some of them, leaves me wondering about his principles. So forgive me if I don't consider him the end-all authority on morality, never the less religion. "
Out of Context wrote on November 20, 2008 5:42 pm: