Analysis: Jayci Yaeger's last wish a national story
BY KENDRA WALTKE / Lincoln Journal Star
A Lincoln family’s quest to unite an imprisoned father with his dying daughter drew national attention for the past two weeks.
The Yaeger family’s story was first told in local media, often presented as “Jayci’s Last Wish.”
It spread quickly through mass e-mails. Bloggers weighed in.
Related Link(s):
The story of Jayci Yaeger, a 10-year-old girl with cancer, and her father, a federal prison inmate, has generated national attention and untold numbers of comments from Web site readers. Here’s a sample of comments from JournalStar.com:
* “This little girl should have had her father with her while she faced death, regardless of his past behavior; this wasn't about him.” - John W. Reagan
* "If you do the crime, you do the time. No exceptions. You should have thought about your family before you messed with meth." - Justice, March 27
* “This warden is cruel and heartless. He may not be breaking any laws but I think he's breaking human kindness, empathy and kindness laws.” - Shelly L., March 21
* “It was a drug charge for goodness sakes, and he was sentenced under mandatory sentencing, which is just bunk in the first place.” - Come On! March 22
* “How many children’s lives did he ruin peddling his filth on our streets?” - Realist, March 21
* “Every inmate in every prison has someone in their family who has ‘extraordinary circumstances’ with which to deal . . . What constitutes a close family member? Not a road we should go down.” - Eddie, March 22
* “I think denying him and his daughter this one last moment is more punishment than he deserves, and more importantly, it's more punishment then she deserves.” - aj, March 22
* “The problem is not merely that they won't let the guy see his kid, but that they torture his family by implying that their pain is not severe enough to merit any action . . . That is the painful social issue that everyone here either consciously or unconsciously recognizes. Whose hardship IS "good enough"? Why do THEY merit special treatment and this family (or maybe US, if we ever find ourselves in such a situation) do not. It's not about compassion. It's about privilege.” - extraordinary justifcation, March 22
Within a day or two, national news networks were calling.
But why and how did the story spread so far so fast?
What would have happened if those first headlines instead had read, “Inmate Requests Special Treatment?”
The story of Jayci Yaeger’s last wish cut to the heart of many people’s notions of justice and mercy.
Readers, viewers and listeners raised questions about equal treatment under the law.
Others broached the subject of collateral damage — the effect a sentence can have on a criminal’s family or the victims of a crime.
From Lincoln and across the nation, e-mails and letters were sent — to the media and government officials — weighing in on the prison system’s requirement for and definition of “exceptional” and “extraordinary” circumstances.
And pressing hardest on the thoughts of most observers was not the legal quandary but the reported final wishes of a dying child, a 10-year-old girl who had been living with cancer since she was 2 and wanted her father at her side one more time.
Mixed feelings exploded all over the Web. Within minutes of an update on Jayci’s condition this past week, literally hundreds of viewers were reading the story on JournalStar.com. The number of “hits” quickly grew to thousands.
Some commenters said a child was bearing unfairly the pain of her father’s actions. Others said giving special consideration to one prisoner would create a slippery slope. Some comments couldn’t be printed.
“It’s a very difficult conflict of the principles of punishment,” said Robert Schopp, professor of law, psychology and philosophy, at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln. “There’s a lot of questions, but not a whole lot of good, clear principles to apply.”
“If you adjust sentences for third parties ... the sentences will deviate remarkably, depending on the circumstances.”
It’s not a subject people talk about often. Yet, “when it suddenly becomes visible in a case like this, it elicits a strong response. Of course, when you involve a suffering child, it will elicit a strong response.”
It’s a gut feeling, he said.
“The more you think about it, the more difficult it becomes.”
Twenty years ago, the Jayci story likely would have touched many who read, saw or heard the story in and near Lincoln.
But what would have been a local story spread across the globe within hours via the Internet.
One online petition to grant Jason Yaeger a furlough to visit Jayci drew 865 names, from as far away as Switzerland, Spain, Germany and Venezuela.
A Journal Star reporter counted eight Facebook groups dealing with the Jayci story.
The story was told nationwide by CNN, CBS, ABC and other media outlets.
One abc.news.com story had 1,117 comments.
The Internet can give a local story steam because people, not news agencies, pass the story along by e-mail and blogs.
“It’s hard to know what causes a story to catch on,” said John Bender, associate professor of news editorial at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln.
“Certainly the fact that in this case you have a little girl dying, which is in itself tragic. And it appears people were very able to empathize with her feelings, and even with her father’s feelings.”
The ability or instinct of the family working with the media can help or hurt a lot, he said.
In this case, those who sympathized with the Yaegers’ plight put a full-court press on federal officials, possibly causing them to relent Wednesday and allow Jason Yaeger’s final visit with Jayci.
“When you get people talking about a story, you build an acceptable interpretation,” Bender said.
Years ago, people would have discussed the Yaegers’ story over the backyard fence, at the barbershop or salon or at church.
“With the Internet, you have that continued beyond the very local level,” he said.
Reach Kendra Waltke at (402) 473-7303 or kwaltke@journalstar.com.

Facebook
del.icio.us
Fark It
Reddit




Post Your Comment
Standards and RulesYour posted comment will appear after it has been approved.
Frequently asked questions about story commenting.
Jonna wrote on March 29, 2008 8:52 am:
menotyou wrote on March 29, 2008 10:15 am:
There are many people out there who would like to have had that opportunity. Sudden death or accidents count for so many deaths and leaves many without closure that they deal with. Yet this family created drama and they had already gotten what so many yearn for.
Every act we do has potential reprecussions to ourselves, family and friends. Mr Yaeger's illegal activity put him in prison and it is his fault and no one else's that he couldn't be with his daughter more. As the old saying goes "If you can't do the time, don't do the crime" "
gracefirst wrote on March 29, 2008 10:16 am:
Dave wrote on March 29, 2008 10:22 am:
JG wrote on March 29, 2008 10:40 am:
do we know wrote on March 29, 2008 11:13 am:
mark wrote on March 29, 2008 11:18 am:
former nebraskan wrote on March 29, 2008 11:55 am:
Nathan wrote on March 29, 2008 12:54 pm:
DM wrote on March 29, 2008 1:34 pm:
GMP wrote on March 29, 2008 1:35 pm:
A FederalCop wrote on March 29, 2008 1:46 pm:
MS wrote on March 29, 2008 2:31 pm:
Me wrote on March 29, 2008 3:43 pm:
DC Husker wrote on March 29, 2008 5:06 pm:
plainsmart wrote on March 29, 2008 5:12 pm:
To "A Federal Cop" wrote on March 29, 2008 5:32 pm:
CJS wrote on March 29, 2008 6:43 pm:
Kathryn L. wrote on March 29, 2008 6:57 pm:
i think that the state should have allowed the father to visit his daughter more frequently during her time of great need. she deeply missed her father, and she had made it clear that it was her final wish to see her father one last time.
sure he got to visit her for that one last time, but i think, even with his stupid actions that landed him in prison for the first place, that he should have been able to spend much more time with his daughter.
if i were the father, at this point i would completely give up on life, and just let go like his daughter did.
my prayers and hopes completely go to this family. this story has snapped me out of my petty little problems, and helped me realize that my life could be a heck of a lot worse. i can feel the loss for the family, and wish for the best. "
Kathryn L. wrote on March 29, 2008 7:09 pm:
teressa j gomez wrote on March 29, 2008 7:46 pm:
He did the crime and he must do the time. He had already been granted at least two escorted visits with Jayci and he did get to go back and say good bye again. Now he is asking for early release to be with his other daughter. He has been and still is playing the media and the public. I am glad for Jayci that she got to see her father one last time. He was asking for a 30 day furlough, this is unacceptable and I believe the right decesions were made. I hope that anybody reading this story will think twice before committing a crime and know that suffering is part of the jusicial system and not only do they suffer but their family and children especially. "
Oh Brother wrote on March 29, 2008 10:23 pm:
So Sorry wrote on March 29, 2008 11:20 pm:
Should know better wrote on March 30, 2008 11:02 pm:
Daniel wrote on March 31, 2008 8:57 pm: