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Letters, 11/29: The dangers of MySpace

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Wednesday, Nov 28, 2007 - 11:59:03 pm CST

I read on Nov. 18 the article called “MySpace hoax ends with teen’s suicide.”

In the article I was extremely shocked by the behavior that was going on over the computer site MySpace. I personally do not have a MySpace page specifically for that reason.

This article is just one of the many horror stories I have heard about the site. Not only are there people — adults and children — making “false pages,” there are predators, and without truly knowing the person you don’t know who it might be.

Something I found extremely shocking was that the mother even allowed her 13-year-old daughter, Megan, to have a MySpace. Even if the mother is monitoring the activity, accidents still happen, which we saw when she left her daughter alone.

Although they say no charges can be pressed on the mother who made the false page, I believe that she should be punished for the way she acted. What kind of adult would do such a thing as tell a 13-year-old girl that life would be better without her?

I feel that MySpace is very unsafe and not monitored closely enough. I don’t think parents are informed enough about the site or that their children are even on the site.

Not only is it the parents’ fault, it’s the child’s as well. Children think that they can talk to anyone on the computer because they will never have to meet or see that person. That is not true.

Overall, I thought the article told a good story, getting the point across, as well as being informational. MySpace is no longer a social activity; it’s a dangerous activity, if one is not careful.

Ashley Lantz, Lincoln

Attacking Iran a bad idea

Regarding the recent letter from Mohammed H. Siddiq concerning U.S. foreign policy in Iran, I fully support his argument.

As a veteran of the U.S. Navy only recently returned to the civilian side, I find it amazing how eager the Bush administration has been to portray Iran as a possible military target.

With how stretched the U.S. military currently is, any attack on Iran would be pure folly. The Army and Marines have 168,000 boots on the ground in Iraq, leaving almost no ground personnel for an invasion of Iran. Thus the attack would be limited to air strikes carried out by the Air Force and Navy.

While the intelligence community may state that they know the location of Iranian nuclear sites, the supposed reason for an attack, we have learned from the Iraq disaster that the intelligence community can be wrong.

Finally, approval of the U.S. military action has fallen to all-time lows, 33 percent, according to yougov.com polls.

For the administration to begin another pre-emptive strike in the Middle East could crush any chance for the next president to rebuild relationships with the rest of the world.

Let us hope that someone level-headed will step up and put a stop to the idea of attacking Iran.

Joseph Hanseling, Lincoln

Some people shouldn’t vote

We received another profound statement from Wes Hager (letter, Nov. 24).

Here are his reasons to not vote for a Democratic candidate for president: “Hillary Clinton’s experience is that she sleeps with an ex-president on occasion and has her own private police.” We shouldn’t vote for Barack Obama because “Barack Obama lived in a foreign country as a child.” And we shouldn’t vote for John Edwards because he sued doctors for malpractice.

If this is the criteria that Hager or anyone else uses to choose a candidate, he shouldn’t be allowed to vote. Hager completes this by saying the other side — Republicans — offer safety and lower taxes.

After slaughtering a half million Iraqis, sending almost 4,000 American men and women to their deaths in Iraq and destroying every international alliance that has taken generations to build, how can anyone say we feel safe. This is the type of logic we come to expect from a Hager piece.

Jack Wood, Lincoln

Conservative propaganda

Looks like whoever laid out the opinion pages of the Journal Star on Nov. 26 needed to fill a hole and found a ridiculous piece of propaganda from the Heritage Foundation to be the right length.

Once more we get to hear how those founts of conservative wisdom like Rush Limbaugh are threatened by the “liberal” media.

On the contrary, if we had an inquiring media at all in this country, President Bush’s lies that started the U.S. occupation of Iraq would have been challenged. The media has overwhelmingly been a lapdog of the administration and the conservatives that seek a perpetual “War on Terror” (a meaningless phrase).

If you have any doubt that the media abdicated its role, look up as an example the coverage of Bush’s “Mission Accomplished” aircraft carrier landing back on May 1, 2003. Among other fawning comments, you will find several mentions of how “presidential” Bush looks in his flight suit. Embarrassing.

The least the Journal Star could have done was to identify the Heritage Foundation as “an influential conservative think tank,” even though propaganda, not thinking, is their expertise.

Or perhaps this, from writer Russ Bellant, would be an even more accurate attribution: The Heritage Foundation is “a key element in the phalanx of rightist groups with an agenda of austerity for the poor, hostility to minorities and women, upward distribution of wealth for the rich, economic domination of the Third World, with repression and bloodletting for those who rebel.”

Thomas Hancock, Lincoln


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stignob wrote on November 29, 2007 6:47 am:
" Do you have any proof that the agenda of the Heritage Foundation is what you said, besides the slander that was just spewed with no fact to back it up? How about showing some FACTS that dispute the numbers the Heritage Foundation puts out. Oh, that's right because that would put the leftists in the real world, without a tin foil hat on. "

Grundle wrote on November 29, 2007 8:38 am:
" Amazing, the libs aren't happy with controlling MOST of the media...they want it ALL. Three cheers for free speech!* (*As long as you agree with them.) "

And I Ran... wrote on November 29, 2007 8:41 am:
" Concerning Iran, Give 'em enough rope and they'll do the job for us, or the Israeli's will. "

ET wrote on November 29, 2007 8:52 am:
" Ashley, the world is full of dangerous things. Blame Myspace all you want, but knee-jerk reactions like yours get old. Yeah, let's put a bunch of sanctions in place for Myspace, let's monitor everything. After all, why make parents accountable for showing their kids how to conduct themselves online? Nah, let's tie it all up in more bureaucracy, monitoring, paranoia, and hysteria. Please, those of us that use the Internet properly resent those of you that become hysterical over things that can't be changed. "

Realist wrote on November 29, 2007 8:58 am:
" A 13 year old child is plenty old enough to have a MySpace page. Millions of kids all across the world have a MySpace page. It's a good way for them to keep up with their friends (rathter then ramble on the telephone for hours at a time), and a good way for them to have a little self expression (with layouts, etc). You hear about the one or two bad stories out of the millions and you immediately want to blow up the whole system. Sheltering your child from every situation, simply because there's the possibility that something bad can happen, is not the trait of a good parent. A good parent will monitor their child's activity, and keep them on a good path. And a good parent knows when something is wrong, and asks lots of questions. A good parent does NOT make a knee jerk reaction. Teach your child to make good decisions, so that when you can't be there to protect them (college for example), you'll have full confidence that they'll be okay. "

Marky Mark wrote on November 29, 2007 9:21 am:
" There is no bigger myth than "The Liberal Media". The people whining about it are so far off to the right wing, that the center seems Liberal to them. By the way Neo-Con whiners, is that the same "Liberal Media" that dogged Clinton for eight straight years? "

Dittohead wrote on November 29, 2007 9:26 am:
" Leave Wes alone. He is very good at memorizing the Neo-Con talking points from our friends on radio....He very seldom misses the daily brainwashing. How dare a progressive woman run for president. Our leader right now has an "R" behind is name and that's good enough! "

Zoomie wrote on November 29, 2007 10:10 am:
" Anyone been following the slapdown of "liberal" Time Magazine and its columnist "liberal" Joe Klein by the liberal blogoshpere? A week ago Klein wrote a column (paper and online) accusing Dems of passing a FISA bill that gave full privacy rights to terrorists, and requiring a judicial warrant for eavesdropping. Led by Salon columnnist Glen Greewald, bloggers proved the bill actually says exactly the opposite of what Klein claimed, causing him to issue (thus far) five different responses, the last of which has him saying he is neither interested nor able to understand the FISA bill (which leads to the obvious question - why is he writing about it, and why is Time's editors letting him write about it?). Meanwhile, Time's editorial staff are so upset -- with blogs, not Klein -- they've refused to issue any retraction of his lie, and just hang up on real journalists who've called them on it! Their position is the flat-earth style of reporting we ususally get today: Republicans say bill protects terrorists; Democrats disagree (or put another way: Repubs say earth is flat; Dems disagree). And wingnuts call this the "liberal media"?!?! "

Chris wrote on November 29, 2007 10:18 am:
" I wouldn't characterize the media as "liberal", but you have your head in the sand or elsewhere if you don't thinkg most media outlets cater to the largest political party in the country, the Democratic Party. Its a very simple ratings game. And I find it astonishing that anyone thinks former President Clinton was dogged by the media when he was in office. He was their lovable little darling and still is. Never before has a President most so many opportunities and done so little and been praised for it. No wonder the media didn't scrutinize President Bush. The national media is just not a very analytical nor intellectual bunch of folks period. "

Humm wrote on November 29, 2007 10:53 am:
" Wow, we have Eschilman mandating city employees to donate to certain charities, and Wood mandating who should and should not vote. And the rest of the council and city leaders just go along for the ride and paycheck. Who says this isn't a dictator town!!. Well, typical for Lincoln, the reason we're over taxed and goin' down the drain!!! "

Hey Stigob wrote on November 29, 2007 11:05 am:
" You ask about showing some fact to dispute the Heritage Foundation? How about you showing some facts to support them? Oh, I guess the right doesn't have to provide facts. All they have to do is cite Rush and company. That is all the fact they have right? "

Jody P. wrote on November 29, 2007 11:05 am:
" Looks like poor Wes forgot to mention that we should vote for Rudy because he happened to be mayor of a city that was attacked on 9/11, which of course automatically makes him an instant expert on terrorism. A similar thing happened to me: my car broke down a few months ago, therefore that makes me an instant expert about auto mechanics. So everyone, just bring all your car repair work to me. I know just as much about car repair as Rudy does about terrorism. "

stignob wrote on November 29, 2007 11:39 am:
" Oh there is lefty media bias. If not, why is there FOX news? I read the lefty bias all the time and see right through it as with the right. To bad the left isn't open minded enough to recognize it, with statements like "it's a myth". "

Dan wrote on November 29, 2007 12:12 pm:
" No such thing as liberal media? Just like the three plant CNN let in on the Republican debate last night. One for Clinton, one for Edwards and one for Obama. CNN claims that they didn’t know, so is this incompetence on CNN part or pushing there agenda. After all they did get one from each camp. "

Left, right, whatever. wrote on November 29, 2007 12:39 pm:
" What does left and right even signify? Why don't we ever argue opposing philosophical viewpoints that actually are meaningful (LJS?), like Marxism vs Capitalism (Smithism?), Secularism vs Theism (in the U.S. usually Christianity), Authoritarianism vs Libertarianism, Individualism vs Collectivism, Idealism vs Relativism. Or we can just keep arguing (if you can call it argument, usually it is just ad-hominem attack, see above) Democrat vs Republican (AKA money-grubbing, power obsessed elite group 1 vs money-grubbing, power-obsessed elite group 2) "

Hmmm wrote on November 29, 2007 12:58 pm:
" Mr Hancock: Are you saying the democrats and more specifically President Clinton, John Kerry etc.. Did NOT state that Iraq had WMD's? Because I can prove that they DID state that time and time again. They did nothing to stop it. Matter of fact, Iraq violated UN resolution 1441 over a 10 times! Someone has to enforce policy to ensure the safety of the free world, and more importantly ME "

Zoomie wrote on November 29, 2007 1:06 pm:
" Are people seriously pretending the GOP didn't plant people in the Dems' debates?!?! Talk about naive! And no, Chris, the press doesn't support the "largest party", they support their corporate owners (who are overwhelmingly GOP)! Funny how many Repuglicans forgot the first paper to raise questions about the Whitewater non-scandal was the LIBERAL NYTimes! And if you missed it the last 5yrs, the LIBERAL Washington Post has been a solid supporter of Bush and the war in Iraq (still is, FYI!). Definition to the right of a liberal press source is any report which actually tells you which side is lying and which is telling the truth, while the "balanced" press will only say "GOP says earth is flat; Dems disagree", and leave you to try and figure out for yourselves who's lying and who's telling the truth! Heck, don't believe me. Just check right-wing columnist Bill Crystal, who admitted a decade ago there isn't really a liberal press, that its just a GOP attack tactic to get their supporters to ignore any bad news! And true to the right wing's nature - THEY ALL BELIEVE THE FAIRY TALE!!! No wonder they get upset with reality! "

Zoomie wrote on November 29, 2007 1:23 pm:
" A followup: yesterday the Chicago Tribune published Joe Klein's dishonest column from Time Magazine. Today they published this: "CORRECTIONS AND CLARIFICATIONS A Time magazine essay by Joe Klein that was excerpted on the editorial page Wednesday incorrectly stated that the House Democratic version of the Foreign Intelligence Surveillance Act would require a court approval of individual foreign surveillance targets. It does not." Apparently the Chicago Trib has greater journalistic honesty and integrity than does Time Magazine! "

wrong! wrote on November 29, 2007 2:44 pm:
" The supposed liberal media is simply an entity created by the right wing facists to confuse voters. There is no liberal equivelent of Rush or Bill O'Rielley. 80% of news media is controlled by the Sinclair group and others like it. The only talk radio that does not have a "conservative" bias is air america and the are being boycotted my over 200 different companies and therefore recieve no ads and no funding! Survey's show that 85% of americans think that sadam attacked the world trade center and that weapons of mass destruction where found in iraq, both wrong, wrong WRONG!!! The media has been hijacked after Regan abolished the fairness doctrine in 1988. Before this time, commercial media outlets were required by law to provide news relevant to the american people, that meant no celebrity gossip people, REAL NEWS! and the key to the fairness doctrine was BALANCE! if someone very conservative would be on for three hours, immediatley after they went off, someone very liberal would have to speak for three hours to provide fair and balanced reporting, unlike fox news. Since 1988 the conservative christian right has taken over media and destoyed investigative journalism and for that matter respectable journalism in general. "

Ripper wrote on November 29, 2007 3:56 pm:
" I have often wondered why certain posters have to pander by name calling when something is not of their particular bent-such junk as Repugs, wingnuts, Dams and the like. I attended a school for two years that was clearly left leaning and although I tend to be centrist on most issue-I remember being taught in that school that if one had to rely on name calling instead of presenting factual reasoned arguement then one probably was simply grasping for straws. I see much opportunity for genuine debate here but way too few people willing to take part. "

Iam wrote on November 29, 2007 3:59 pm:
" I am a liberal, proud of it, don't wear a tin foil hat, never have, but have sent money to and will be voting for Ron Paul. Don't worry about the agenda of the media and don't look to one media outlet for all your answers. But do use your mind. Oh, and the sooner name calling comes to a stop the sooner many of you can be taken more seriously. "

MiddleOfRoad wrote on November 29, 2007 4:31 pm:
" At least CNN, ABC, CBS, etc do not hire reporters like Geraldo Rivera. Rivera committed treason when we invaded Iraq in 2003 when he broadcast live the location and direction of movement of the unit he was imbedded with. Rivera even admitted he did that after he was kicked out of Iraq. Treason is giving aide to the enemy. If you don't call giving the location and direction of movement of a unit in real time, what do you call it? If it was a reporter from a network other than Faux News, he would have been fired, jailed, and sent to Gitmo as a terrorist if not shot! "

Mindless Robot wrote on November 29, 2007 7:00 pm:
" Might want to read Resolution 1441 again. The U.S, violated it by not letting Hans Blix do his job. They yanked him when he couldn't find anything so they could invade Iraq. And By the way,who cares what Clinton said 10 years ago. Bush bungled Iraq big time and continues to do so...right now. "

Jody P. wrote on November 29, 2007 8:42 pm:
" fyi, the lies of the Bushies were their specific claims about the Niger uranium, mobile weapons labs, al-Qaeda ties, etc., and their intentional distortion of the intelligence by only presenting one side of it (they left out all the questions and doubts, and presented it to us as if it were all firmly established facts). If Bush would have been truthful, he would have told us that the intel community BELIEVES that Iraq has WMD, but that they have had no new firm hard evidence for several years. But that didn't sound scary enough for "Joe Public", as Bush referred to us, so the Bushies decided to enliven the their case with their laughable excuse for new hard evidence. It wasn't Bill Clinton who lied to us about the Niger uranium. It was little Georgie. And worst of all, the Bushies decided to use the tragic deaths of 9/11 as props to justify their invasion of a country which had nothing to do with 9/11. Again, that wasn't Bill Clinton that did that to us. "

Young Lincolnite wrote on November 29, 2007 11:27 pm:
" I can't decide if Ashley Lantz's letter about MySpace is comical or embarrassing. I agree that the MySpace and similar provide opportunities for malicious anonymity, but the last thing anyone needs to gripe about is the dangers of the latest youth trend. Every generation, those who can't keep up are quick to criticize. Does not seem overly obvious that this girl had severe existing mental health issues? Cruelty among peers has been prevalent in that age group forever. She could just as easily have been fooled by notes slipped in her locker or prank phone calls. The real disgusting phenomenon here is that some kids are so desperate for companionship they turn to someplace like MySpace. The Internet is an amazingly powerful and helpful tool, but it should never be a place to "meet" people. I wonder when a similar tragedy will happen among adults on some sort of ridiculous dating site. "

Sure Dan - wrote on November 30, 2007 7:48 am:
" And the guy stroking his "baby" gun on the Dem CNN debate was a card carrying member of the Socialist Worker Party too right? I mean it's not like a presidential candidate is supposed to represent all the people or anything is it? Oh wait.... they used to up until 7 years ago. "

hey realist!! wrote on November 30, 2007 8:31 am:
" I am the parent to a 13 year old girl, and I totally agree with you. Yes you have to be careful, but I see nothing wrong with myspace. What happened to this other girl is tragic, but bad things happen sadly. "

peb wrote on November 30, 2007 8:40 am:
" Listen, read, watch all news sources and figure out for yourself what is going on. Because you don't like what is happening and then it makes the news, doesn't make that news outlet liberal. It just so happens that lots of stuff is happening that conservatives don't like and it makes the news. "

Wrong! is WRONG!!! wrote on November 30, 2007 9:24 am:
" And the only reason why the demorats are wanting the FD is because shows like Scare America are failing... "

Lindsay wrote on November 30, 2007 10:26 am:
" Left, right, whatever: very well said. Anyways, the US media, for the most part in this country is a joke. Fox is heavily biased and CNN consists mainly of softball stories that show little insightful journalism. Best to start watching the BBC...it's the best source of news in the English language, and you can watch it every night on NETV. "

Ashley.... wrote on November 30, 2007 11:52 am:
" Why would you blame Myspace? do you really think if there was no Myspace there would be no predators? Get real. Hold the parents accountable for having nothing better for their kids to do but sit on a computer. Computers and TV are becoming free babysitters now days, pathetic if you ask me.Im all for Myspace, plus you have to be an idiot if you can't tell the difference between the good and bad on that site. "

myspace wrote on November 30, 2007 12:00 pm:
" is a safe and handy way to communicate with friends and family. The key is monitoring and moderation. "

question wrote on November 30, 2007 12:54 pm:
" How can you say that you don't have a Myspace page for that exact reason, when you just said that you were shocked about the actions in the story. If you were shocked, it was because you didn't know it was going on, and if you didn't know what was going on, it couldn't have been the reason for you not to have a Myspace page. "

nani wrote on November 30, 2007 11:28 pm:
" I have an 11-year-old and she can't have a myspace page. She has e-mail and plays on club penguin. She is on the computer at school. She also has a great imagination and musical talent. That's because she's not excessively using the computer. Myspace is very time consuming, especially for younger people. "

Douglas Novak, Crete wrote on December 3, 2007 6:23 am:
" Jack Wood expects that votes are cast with his kind of logic with total disregard to the passion and emotional leverage of wisdom. Apparently the letter from Wes Hager (I didn't read that one) believes emotion or passion should over ride logic. Both letter writers appear to be out of balance based upon the limited information available. I believe logic is only the beginning of wisdom and unbridled emotion and passion without the benefit of using the logic of the brain is a recipe for disaster. "