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By BRIAN CHRISTOPHERSON / Lincoln Journal Star

Monday, Sep 24, 2007 - 11:50:48 am CDT

Ali Ribeiro is coming back to Nebraska soon. Say what you must, but she misses the place. 

Should’ve seen her grandma when she told her that.

“You can’t tell me that if it weren’t for your family that you would want to live in Nebraska,” Grandma said.

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A Nebraska sign greets people entering the state south of DuBois. (Robert Becker)

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“Why not?” the 28-year-old responded. “I like living here. There’s nothing wrong with Nebraska.”

Sure, it may seem flat, boring and unyielding in its politics to outsiders. But what about those Nebraska sunsets, that Midwestern work ethic, traffic that gets you home from work in 15 minutes, the orange leaves of October?

How about a Runza in hand and the Huskers driving for 6? A haircut for 10 bucks? This is a place where people will get down on their knees in their best dress pants to help a stranger fix a flat, won’t they?

Yes, Nebraska is all those things, Emily Evnen says.

She admires much about the place she grew up. Now 19, she wouldn’t be opposed to potentially calling the place home again.

But like others her age, getting out of Nebraska was a welcome thought during her high school years. For all she respected about the place, there was one big issue: the state’s politics, usually more red than blue, and in her eye, sometimes leaning more toward intolerance than progress. So when it was time for college she left, for a while, maybe longer.

She’s not alone.

Rylee Buettner left because the  state lacked diversity.

Alex Wheeler wants to leave for his career’s sake and because he thinks people here don’t always think for themselves.

Marissa Cook came here from Michigan to live for a year and quickly turned back. She never wants to live here again.

Meanwhile, down in North Carolina, author Amy Knox Brown speaks with an overflowing fondness of Nebraska. She calls Lincoln “secretly progressive,” and her husband calls her the “minister of propaganda” for the state. Her check’s in the mail.

In Orlando, Fla., 31-year-old Deborah Schaben thinks often of coming back home. Nebraska’s a great place to live, she thinks. Granted, it took leaving to realize it.

Such were the wide-ranging opinions from late teens to retirees, all of whom live or have lived in Nebraska.

There was an equal share of loving and loathing for the state, a mixture of praise and disgust that brought to the surface many of the issues young Nebraskans are debating as they decide whether to stay or go.

The signs call it “the good life,” but then again, the good life means different things to different folks.


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Luke Peterson wrote on July 29, 2007 1:33 am:
" All of the good qualities about Nebraska covered in this article truly does make Nebraska better than the rest of the other states. But I am sick and tired of the "except gays" rule. The intolerance level here in Nebraska about anything that is remotely different from the norm, makes it tough for me to see the positives of Nebraska. However the subtleness of the 'Good Life' reassures me that there is hope. Hope that maybe people in Nebraska aren't as stubborn as the Islamic Extremists out in the world (but some people are borderline close to that assertion). What I am trying to say here is that there is a quasi terrorist aspect in Nebraska that goes against the GLBT community. Obviously from the failures of the Unicameral to pass equal rights for the minority I belong to makes me reconsider my place of residence. However Nebraska is and will always be my home no matter how much my fellow neighbors object my existence. Why? Because I absolutely love it here. I've said it before on here but I will not stop saying it until people understand the concept. We are apart of Nebraska, always have been and always will be. No matter how much the intolerables will try to drive us away, it will only go as far as driving their conscience away from reality. "

 Clay wrote on July 29, 2007 3:05 am:
" Most people who love Nebraska do so because it is all they know. I lived there for 16 years and enjoyed it, or so I thought. Then I moved to Wyoming. Now every time I go back to visit I just look at the vista and just get depressed at the eternal monotony. If you meet Nebraskans out of state usually the first thing they mention, or at least from my experience, are the Huskers and Runza. How sad is it that the first thing you mention when you meet a fellow Nebraskan is a food item! No wonder there are an ungodly amount of obese citizens. If you meet Wyomingites elsewhere it is the national parks, the mountains, the solitude, the enery industry, the $4 billion surpus, the low taxes, etc. And by the way, in reference to the article, have you ever seen a sunset in Wyoming. That's what I thought. You get the point. Yes it is a good place to raise a family-because there is nothing else to do. Not one natural lake in the whole state, no mountains, no national parks, etc. Need I go on? And I also realize after living in Wyoming for 2 years how ungodly high taxes are there. Number 6 or 8 in the country depending on which study you look at. I always used to laugh when I read the op-eds leading up to the NE-CO game when some Greenie (that is what we call Coloradoans here in Wyoming) would say Nebraskans love the Huskers because that is all that there is. After living in the most beautiful state in the country with unlimited things to do I now know what they mean. Don't get me wrong, I despise the Buffs, but their arguments make sense. If they lose they can go skiing, go the mountains, go rafting, etc. What can Nebraskans do after a Husker loss? Just drink and eat more. So yes, compared to a lot of places it is the so-called good life but in reality it is a flat, over-taxed, boring, insignificant piece of real estate in this great land of ours. Enjoy your inane existance Nebraska. And, as always..Go Huskers. After all,what else is there? "

 Meh wrote on July 29, 2007 3:07 am:
" Nebraska WAS the good life, until the nannies turned it into a giant daycare center. I simply don't understand this insistence they have of placing their collective noses squarely into everyone's business. "

 Catch 22 wrote on July 29, 2007 3:22 am:
" After growing up in Nebraska and subsequently spending time elsewhere I have come to the conclusion that the exact things that make Nebraska such a great place to grow up are the things that make it a difficult place to stay. The quality lifestyle and slow pace are undeniable. The education and work ethic are superior. The problem is once you have enjoyed that great upbringing you are competing with similarly well brought up people for limited opportunities. The absolute cream of the crop can succeed in this environment, but those just a slight cut below (you know the 3.75 GPA types) are left to struggle fighting for scraps. My experience with job opportunities was similar to those I have spoken with. After finishing school in Nebraska I looked in Lincoln for employment. I couldn't even get interviews with the least desirable employers. On a 2-week trip to Chicago I had 9 offers, 3 from top-level firms. On a recent trip to Lincoln I discussed details of our career experiences 10 years down the road with some old college buddies. Those absolute top performers were able to stay in Lincoln with the choice jobs and are moving along nicely in their careers, but the amazing thing is those who were not quite as talented and had to move out of Lincoln are without fail blowing away the Lincolnites in career progression, salary (adjusted for location), and job satisfaction. Those of us living out-of-state collectively boiled down the difference to the huge number of choices, the pure volume of additional opportunities, and the relative lack of competition we face. Hey Lincoln is great and I would love to find a way to start mining that deep ore of talent the University of Nebraska churns out every year. It is a shame there isn't much opportunity for the masses in such a great place! "

 whatever wrote on July 29, 2007 4:41 am:
" If you want folks who are knowledgeable about sports, Nebraska is hard to beat. People knowledgeabel about Music, Lincoln is hard to beat. Creative political thinking? Believe it or not as little as 20 years ago there was plenty of it, but now it's gone. Tolerance for different points of view? Again 20 years ago there was a lot of it, but not anymore. I think the brain drain has really come home to roost, with a lower birth rate and a higher out migration rate Nebraska simply doesn't have the talent, business creativity and political boldness to make the progressive changes it needs too. And the work ethic is gone too now that we have so few kids who grow up on farms. These are just a few thoughts and I know there are good people trying to make a difference, but for many places in Nebraska the wake up call was 30 years ago and folks are still sleeping. I know folks in their 60's who seem to still be waiting for their kids to come back home, but those kids have already started and finished their families are never coming back. In hindsight I would have left had I known how the business and political climate would have degraded so much, but I'm "stuck" for another 5 years, then it's outa here. "

 soon ex nebrasksan wrote on July 29, 2007 7:30 am:
" nebraska has a big problem, an ageing population, horrible taxes, a bad split between east and west, a political process that has faltered on the big issues latly, (water,taxes,infrastructere)I oncame to lincoln to be close to my son, and in a few yrs when he is in collage i will gratfully be moving on. "

 ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ wrote on July 29, 2007 7:37 am:
" that describes nebraska in a nutshell, high taxes, no decent jobs, no decent housing, nothing to do but smell the corn growing, and watch Hee Haw reruns outside your window all day......zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz "

 newer to NE wrote on July 29, 2007 8:14 am:
" I moved to Nebraska two years ago. So far, everything that is supposedly good about Nebraska has turned out to be a lie. What work ethic? And that fabled mid-western niceness is a load of _____! People here are as or more self-centered than in any of the 5 other states I have lived in. Just check out the driving habits...on the streets of Lincoln it's me first and who cares about anyone else. The people on the coasts make fun of people from Nebraska, and people in Nebraska make fun of people on the coasts. So far, the people on the coasts are more on target. At least there is more tolerance of diversity there. And before anybody suggests it, I would move if I could afford it (and if I hadn't been dumb enough to buy a house here...anyone want to take it off my hands?). "

 Lisa wrote on July 29, 2007 8:20 am:
" NE has a huge brain drain problem. I was born raised in Lincoln (Huntington, Dawes and Northeast) and even graduated with a BA in Economics from UNL. Never been to a Husker game (yeah it's possible) so yes there are a few things to do in Lincoln. BARS: THERE IS NOTHING TO DO. Every idea that comes out in this paper gets shot down. People here are SOOOO afraid of change and bring tourism to NE it scares me. People here ARE nice and I don't understand where these nay-sayers are living (possible south Lincoln) and why the have such an influence with our politicians (ok dumb comment $$$$$$$$$$$). It makes me so angry. I would love to be able to like living in Nebraska. I've been trying to move to San Diego for the past 7 years, just my NE paycheck keeps me here - even with a degree. I had been searching for decent paying job since May 2005, my problem is: I DON'T WANT TO SELL INSURANCE. If Lincoln would have more to do then business would be more pursuaded to move their companies here. More companies means more jobs. More jobs means college grads could find jobs with a RANGE of pay available. C'mon NE politicians and non-South citizens!! "

 karwied wrote on July 29, 2007 8:37 am:
" Luke: I have read posts before from you and you ALWAYS raise the "gay" thing. I think it is you who has the problem, thinking that everyone hates you. I don't believe that Nebraskans are intolerant of gays. I think Nebraskans are intolerant of bad government, too many illegals living here, high taxes and a lot of other things. Get over your problem, Luke, it isn't all about you and your sexual preference!!! "

 Back Again wrote on July 29, 2007 8:41 am:
" My wife and I left Nebraska 30 years ago. Went out into the world studied, learned, traveled, worked and raised our children. Living in other countires and multiple states. We always thought we would move back. Well we did. The "Good Life" is a mixed bag. Income and property taxes are among the highest. Long time residents of towns and communities are opposed to change and progressive thought. Seems to be a haven in some areas for zealots. I think there is a covert wave of racisim that suburban and rural Nebraskans carry with them. Oh ye "Kings and Queens of Nebraska" we reap what we sow. We aren't opposed to staying but we have the freedom to leave if and when we wish. I think living on the outside of the Nebraska world gave us that freedom of chioce. "

 esad wrote on July 29, 2007 8:44 am:
" Good place to live but we pay for it with the high taxes!! "

 a parting thought wrote on July 29, 2007 8:57 am:
" I am soon to be leaving Nebraska. The state that I have lived in and loved all of my life seems oddly out of step with reality, quite suddenly. Since the beginning of the Bush administration, I have been so VERY dissapointment with my fellow Nebraskans. I once thought that we, as citizens, choose the middle ground because it was the kindess place to be. We didn't want to be intrusive to anyone on either extreme. But with the unwaivering support for the Bush administration and the absolute ignorance of domestic and foreign affairs, I now think that the middle ground was merely a place to hid until we could truly find a leader who would feed into our hidden political and social bigotry. I was once proud to tell others that I was born, raised, and lived in Nebraska. With our lock-step support and obedience to Bush and his cronies, the election of a oportunistic, predatory bigot to the post of Attorney General, the decline of our social service infrastructure, the ineptness of our Health and Human Services System, our our inabilitiy to discuss adult issues (sex), and the blatant discrimination by our governmental entities (the City of Lincoln's violation of civil rights), I am leaving. I take my human services knowledge, Master's degree, and checkbook with me. I will always be proud to tell other that I was born and raised in Nebraska, but knew it was time to get out before it got as bad as I think it will. I wish those I care about well. Keep fighting the taxes, bigots, and ineptness. "

 whatever wrote on July 29, 2007 9:52 am:
" Nebraskans as stubborn as Islamic Extremists? You have to have a particularly distorted view of reality to even believe that. "

 whatever wrote on July 29, 2007 9:58 am:
" Everyone is leaving Nebraska for the "good life", well, except for Omaha. But then again we Omahans don't even think we're part of Nebraska. We're really a state/city of our own, and it's because we're embarrassed of Nebraskans that don't claim Omaha as home. Our Omaha culture is so much above the hickville small cities in Nebraska and Iowa. And Husker football? What a has-been. True Omahans don't even want to claim them as their own. You want an exciting life full of atmoshpere? Come to the Big-O...especially downtown Omaha. "

 Amy wrote on July 29, 2007 10:06 am:
" At 22 I couldn't wait to leave Nebraska. Now at 30 I've lived in D.C. for 8 years. I do miss the slower life and would like to be closer to my parents since they're getting older. The problem with moving back is employment. My east coast salary is twice what I would make in Nebraska even allowing for the lower cost of living. I agree with Catch 22. When I look at my peers that stayed in Nebraska there is no comparison. I get more frequent raises at a higher percentage and get regular bonuses for performing my job well. I would be hard pressed to find either in Nebraska. I love my homestate but until employers there begin to compete with employment opportunities on the coasts the "brain drain" will continue. "

 jerry wrote on July 29, 2007 10:16 am:
" I think the "good life" is misrepresented. Nebraska is not the only place with sunsets. It's not the only place where people in dress clothes help each other out. It is only one of fifty states where people help each other. It is also one of the worst states for taxes, jobs, friendly folks and education. I think if a lot of the population would take the time to visit other places they would realize that. When we left nebraska, my wifes mother asked , "whats wrong with nebraska, you've lived here all your life?" We both said that there is no way we can afford to retire in the state. Where we moved is not important but, many people from many other states who are retiring are showing up here. We lived in lincoln and there is no way you could get to work or home in 15 minutes. Runzas are good , but, the huskers going for 6 was just getting old. Again though, if thats the only thing a state has going for it, how do you expect young people to stay after graduation? "

 Randy wrote on July 29, 2007 10:26 am:
" I grew up in Nebraska in the 60's and 70's and would have loved to had my kids grow in Nebraska. But a devorice made the choice for me. I live in Texas where there is three metro areas with larger populations then the whole state of Nebraska has. And I look forward to the day I can get out of this rat race and back to THE GOOD LIFE. Jobs there are jobs and some very good ones. And to the Wyoming gentelman, no animals and no lakes? Have you been to the Sandhills? The largest sand dune region in the western hemisphere and under them is one of the largest aquaferes (the Ogalla) in the world. Ther are many lakes and potholes in the sandhills. In the 1800's during the great cattle drive's they would drive Longhorns from Texas to Nebraska for the grass of the sandhills and the open waters in the winter. To make a long story short if you have moved away and don't want to come back. I for one can't wait to get back home... Oh ya if you have moved away and don't want to come back to live, that makes my drive home 12 min not 15... GO BIG RED "

 Jenna wrote on July 29, 2007 10:44 am:
" After living other places, I couldn't wait to get back to my beloved Nebraska. I am glad to be back where people wave at each other, traffic is easy, and life is good. And for those who think Nebraska is just football, then I think you didn't look very far, which I find is often the case for people who have decided that Nebraska is boring. There are more festivals, parades, and events than you can imagine. And it is a great place to raise a family. The educational system here is great, far ahead of big city schools. I am proud to call Nebraska home. "

 Ted wrote on July 29, 2007 10:50 am:
" I am a fourth generation Californian who moved to Nebraska for the very reasons commentators in this article left. You want diversity? How about large political and ethnic groups fighting over everything: housing, law enforcement, education, budgets, etc? Want more action! Traffic so bad you spend hours trying to get to work. Politics? Single issue groups, take your pick: GLBT, animal rights, anti-everything...to these people nothing else matters except their own narrow wants and agendas. At least here we have a sense of public community and common rsponsibility. I love Nebraska, and I tell everyone to move to California. "

 mike wrote on July 29, 2007 10:55 am:
" most people this most people that, i love how "most people" always know what "most people" are thinking, good thing im not "most people" "

 G. Beacher wrote on July 29, 2007 10:59 am:
" I left because of the high taxes. Florida doesn't have an income tax and has lower property and sales taxes. My property taxes have gone down three years in a row. Every resident qualifies for the homestead exemption and valuations are capped to rise no more than 3% each yaer. My license and registration on a $60,000 car is $46 each year. Granted it's all paid for by millions of tourists, but I'm not paying it. Nebraska never learned to live within the income 1.7 million people can provide. I don't think it ever will. "

 Aaron wrote on July 29, 2007 11:02 am:
" Yay! Let's all beat up on Nebraska. (yawn...) "

 In the eye of the beholder wrote on July 29, 2007 11:15 am:
" I knew reading the article that the crazy fringe would come out and extort thier views.. Not very Nebraska like. I am in the Army currently stationed in Texas, Ive been all over the world, and yet Nebraska is my home. The pace is slower the people friendlier and the weather isnt all bad either. I wouldnt mind living in Wyoming cause of the View, and Chicago has alot to do, and Florida has beaches, if thats what you want then thats where you should live. I do miss Runzas and Dorthy Lynch salad dressing and I am a very fit persons who works out daily, so the obesity crack doesnt hold water, I also miss fresh air, and slow moving tractors, and a farmer waving as we pass, no those things dont happen everywhere, thats why I think that Nebraska is the Good Life, but it is in the eye of the beholder.. One thing I dont understand is if you dont like Nebraska, and thats fine with me, then why do you get on this post? God Bless Nebraska "

 Not From Nebraska... wrote on July 29, 2007 11:19 am:
" but I like it here anyway. Many of the things people have described in these articles can be applied to most states in the country. I've lived in 5 states in the U.S., including this one, and everywhere I've ever gone people think the grass is greener on the other side. I've learned that there is give and take in any place you live and it is no different here. Sure there are places with more to do, more "culture", more "scenery", that are politically more liberal, etc..... Then again alot of these same places have horrible traffic, smog, more crime, etc... Personally I think Nebraska is beautiful in its own way.... just because we don't have mountains or an ocean surrounding us doesn't mean there isn't unique beauty here. I'll grant you that NE isn't the most diverse place on Earth, but there is some. Go down around 27th St and you'll find neighborhoods with alot of diversity. I've seen more diversity in public schools around downtown Lincoln than in other places I have lived. As far as culture goes, I don't feel deprived here. Granted the culture here is different than CA, NY, Europe, etc... but I still find people here unique (as I have every place I have lived) Sure there is alot more to do in bigger cities, but there is still plenty to do right here in Lincoln. I do wish things would stay open longer around here though..... For politics, I am a liberal and I don't feel remotely uncomfortable here. Actually alot of my friends are too and you might be surprised how "blue" parts of Lincoln are. I've done some research on past election returns and was surprised by how blue some parts of the city were. Granted I know my viewpoints are in the minority here but honestly they are everywhere else I've ever lived, so that doesn't make NE unique by a long shot. In any case, I don't find people here to be all that intolerant. I suppose it's all perception though. Nebraska wasn't on high on my list of places to move and it probably isn't ideal for me, but I love it here anyhow. "

 Nobody's Fool wrote on July 29, 2007 11:27 am:
" I was born and raised out east. I married a woman from central Nebraska while in college. We moved here with our three boys in the early 90s. I've had the great opportunity to travel north and west in Nebraska, and I call it the best kept secret in the lower 48. Its so beautiful. The land rolls around like blankets on my bed, the sky is blue and bright and HUGE. Its nice to drive 65 miles from Thedford to Valentine with nothing but cows and hawks for company. The solitude is glorious. The lack of people is refreshing. What people I have run into are mostly kind and content. Their voting habits make me crazy and their religiosity is a bit overdone, but by and large they are the kindest people in the world. I've fallen in love with Nebraska. I'll always think of it as my home. "

 Someday... wrote on July 29, 2007 11:36 am:
" A good and true commentary on living in Nebraska. I grew up in Lincoln for my first 18 years of life. I spent that entire time dreaming of being somewhere else and used college as my first opportunity to leave the place that I wanted to get out of so badly. 10 years have passed and it has taken that long to realize what a great place Lincoln/Nebraska was to live, grow up, and raise a family. Infact, if it weren't for Lincoln city politics I would probably try harder to find a way back. The other problem for me is that there just aren't enough "big cities" with employment opportunities in my field to choose from... Maybe I will retire there in 25 years... Or maybe Florida :) "

 Then Go wrote on July 29, 2007 11:42 am:
" Yep, we're all stupid and backwards. There's nothing for you brilliant kids here. If I didn't like the state I lived in, I'd quit whining about it and GTFO! I'd hope that those who don't like Nebraska wiould do likewise - shut the piehole, load up your car, and GTFO. Never come back, and I mean never. Of course, it's a lot cheaper to complain and do nothing. "

 DannyB wrote on July 29, 2007 11:55 am:
" I have to agree with ‘Whatever’. Lincoln and Nebraska in general was a great place to grow up. I received a great education, hometown values, and a farm kid work ethic. When I got older, I began to see the limitations of Nebraska as well, especially after I moved from the State. The refusal to progress politically has taken its toll on the people and institutions that made the state a shining example decades ago. The May 1945 edition of the National Geographic Magazine had a segment on ‘Nebraska, the Cornhusker State’ which I challenge all of you to read. Here are some highlights: “As late as 1860 school geographies described Nebraska, then a six year old Territory, as an uninhabitable portion of the Great American Desert. Today it ranks sixth among the States in value of agricultural and livestock products….Ups and downs have made Nebraskans philosophical and thrifty…They (unicameral) adhere strictly to the policy of pay-as-you-go, and every institution, every building, every highway, every bit of equipment the state owns is debt free…..” Here’s the clincher in my book: “With justifiable pride Nebraskans advertise their State as ‘the White Spot of the Nation’: they have no State bonded indebtedness, no State income tax, no State sales tax, no State luxury tax; yet their colleges and schools, their roads and other public works are fully abreast the times.” What has changed since then? Leadership. We do not have leaders in Nebraska today, we have blind followers and yes-men/women who stick to party lines and don’t think beyond their own greed and search for power. Where is the George Norris, J. Sterling Morton, Father Flannigan of today? The people rising up and impeaching our first state governor Butler is inspiring, but I’d wager most Nebraskan’s don’t know we are the only state to impeach our first governor. It should be a badge of pride that once we thought for ourselves and decided what was easy, what was popular, and what was right are three very different and unconnected principles. Right now our leaders are making the easy and popular decisions to stay in office, to keep party funding, and to not ‘rock the boat’. It’s really time to make the right choices for Nebraska, isn’t it? Otherwise, we will just fall further and further behind, and lose our future to other cities and other states who think about tomorrow, not just today. "

 ted wrote on July 29, 2007 11:58 am:
" Since you didn't post my comment about moving to Nebraska from California, please explain why all the companion articles to this topic are negative stories from people under 25 years of age. They lack the experience and perspective to truly appreciate Nebraska. They are not raising a family, don't have jobs or careers, etc. "

 Long Gone wrote on July 29, 2007 12:26 pm:
" I would guess that at least 95% (probably more like 99%) of the brightest and most creative Nebraska natives leave the state to live in NYC, L.A. or wherever. And let's face facts, Nebraska doesn't exactly receive an influx of those kind of people moving in here. Simple genetics tells you that if you keep removing people with a specific trait (say tallness) from the gene pool, the resulting population will show less tendency toward that trait (e.g. lack tall people). So it seems unavoidable that over generations, the population of Nebraska slowly but surely gets just a little dumber all the time. And to make matters worse, the Nebraska environment isn't exactly what you'd call cosmopolitan and cultured, so the locals get little chance if any for intellectual enrichment of what brain power they have. Personally I notice this difference in Nebraskans as soon as I get off the plane at Eppley. Of course I suppose the people in Kansas, Iowa, Oklahoma and the Dakotas suffer from the same cruel genetic fate. But, at least it's not crowded. "

 Nancy wrote on July 29, 2007 1:11 pm:
" I was born and raised in Nebraska it will always be home to me I lived in Mississippi for 11 years and now in Missouri don't like eaither place but the cost of living and taxes in Nebraska are getting worse.I will stay in Missouri I can go to Nebraska anytime just 5 hours away. "

 whatever wrote on July 29, 2007 1:29 pm:
" I'm not 25 and I have many children, I chose to stay in Nebraska because of what it was 25 years ago, not knowing how badly the state would go downhill. I will keep some roots here, but count me gone in 5. This state isn't going to turn around any time soon. Take a look at the leadership. Adrian Smith, Lee Terry, Jeff Fortenberry and too many yahoos in the Unicameral to count. The divisions between eastern and western Nebraska are astounding and almost to the point of no political resolution. Omaha, it's a real bright spot, but Lincoln is done. "

 Jeremiah Johnson wrote on July 29, 2007 2:02 pm:
" Another Wyomingite here. Spent the first 25 years of my life in Nebraska but left 34 years ago. Every few years I HAVE to get back there to visit relatives, but am instantly reminded of why I left to begin with, so consequently, my trips are brief. I also avoid the mid-summer and mid-winter times of year, too. I hate that much humidity. I also agree with "Clay's" remarks. There are LOTS of former Nebraskans here in Wyoming....and they don't mind telling you that they're glad to be away from there. I have mountains out my windows and during my commutes to and from work each day, I see a wider variety of wildlife than I could ever see in Nebraska. My income is also much better than what I could realize in Nebraska, too. I don't miss any of it....Big Red, Runzas, Dorothy Lynch, and whatever else. "

 Steve wrote on July 29, 2007 2:03 pm:
" I always get a kick out of the "out-of-state" people that comment, negatively, on these subjects. If Nebraska is so bad and your current location is so great...why in heavens name are you even looking at an online Lincoln newspaper??? Shouldn't you be out surfing, or mountain climbing, or playing bingo in the Florida humidity??? I agree with Aaron. YAY! Let's beat up on Nebraska. (yawn...) And I LOVE IT here! "

 omnione wrote on July 29, 2007 2:24 pm:
" The "perfect state" for anybody is really like finding that special somebody. There are some states that people like and some states that they don't like. So, there is always someone who'll think Nebraska is great and those who think Nebraska is the worst place ever. I do have to note the prevalence of e-mail writers who mentioned Nebraska's conservatism. Though I'm a self-proclaimed centrist and registered Democrat, these people make it sound like liberalism is the only way to go. If that's the case, then you really are better elsewhere as a state isn't going to undergo a major shift in thinking for you. To whatever, though I like Omaha and its city lifestyle itself, enough with the chest-thumping about how great it is. Omaha is a big city wannabe that pales in comparison to the larger or similarly sized cities across the nation. As for Husker football, it's better to be a "has been" (which it isn't so far) than a "never was" like Creighton and UNO. The 80,000+ who fill the stadium, many of whom are from Omaha, and the thousands who still attend away games probably don't agree with you. "

 Alabama Steve wrote on July 29, 2007 2:32 pm:
" What? Move back to the low wage & tax me state? No thanks. It took me less than 3 months outside of Nebraska that I realized my dad was right that it ain't nothin but a desert, high taxes, low wages, along with a cost of living reltive to a high wage state. A good thing about Nebraska is that when job prospects see we are from Nebraska we pretty much get the job. Since leaving Nebraska with an engineering degree in 1995 we have moved to better jobs 3 times. I am a one interview one job offer profesional and I do attribute that to Nebraska. "

 Ba-bye wrote on July 29, 2007 2:54 pm:
" Nebraska is not the east or west coast. If that's the lifestyle you want, move. Good riddance. "

 Not Good!! wrote on July 29, 2007 3:16 pm:
" If you were born and raised in Nebraska, that is probably the only compelling reason you have a fondnest for the state. I left in the '50s, no jobs, no help to get a job or go to school. Parents couldn't afford it. After moving east I found a much different world. Jobs and companies helping you go to college. Opportunities I would have NEVER had in Nebraska. All classmates left the state too and NEVER came back. I only came back to help the elders, after that I'm gone!! Nebraskans are a stubborn people, and even heard my parents talk about that along tine ago. I agree, Omaha is like a city/state all its own, and rightly so, they have progressed and grown. Lincoln so called "Vision" or "O" street gang I hear about have done nothing for Lincoln except continue to driven it in a hole. Lincoln is going to end up looking like Plattsmouth or some deteriorating little town. Kearney has done a better job of progressing. The further east you go you are more into the Wall Street mentallity and know more of whats going on in the world. Computers have helped Nebraska, but still I have to go off in the corner and giggle at how primitative Nebraska still is. To put it mildly, I'm shocked that after all these years Nebraska, especially Lincoln the state capitol is in the same old or even a much deeper rut than it was 50 years ago. Oh sure Lincoln has "clean" streets, but look how the people are paying for things - thru the nearly highest property taxes in the U.S. If Nebraskans are so wonderfully educated it sure doesn't show. Quite the opposite, I GOT my education after I left this state. I wouldn't even think twice about sending my kid to UNL. This is the most Rude, Selfish and Greedy city & state I've lived in. And I guarantee you, people living west of Omaha really don't know there's another whole world out there, especially not being taxed to death and people living happy and invigorated lives! The only thing I see missing in Lincoln is, people sitting out on their front porches in their rocking chairs, but yet thats understandable since people are VERY UNFRIENDLY. The day I moved in my neighbor told me "I'd be O.K. as long as I lived like the rest of the Lincoln people." Then started ordering me to take them to the grocery and doctor. They have a nice new big Buick in the garage they drive!!!!???? "

 John wrote on July 29, 2007 3:22 pm:
" I would to the sand hills in a second.....if there were jobs to be had ! "

 above the fray wrote on July 29, 2007 3:31 pm:
" I like the humility implicit in "the good life" motto; it spurns deception. When someone says "We're the best," you know you are either being tricked or talking with someone obnoxiously self-congratulatory. In reality,"the good life" does have its banal aspects though-- paradoxically mostly in those areas where Nebraska residents consider themselves best. "

 Jim wrote on July 29, 2007 4:13 pm:
" Having lived in Colorado for 3 years, and Missouri for 1 year, I am counting the days till I can get back. It is true there iis a world of difference between Omaha and the rest of the state.There is a lot more to the state then Runzas and the huskers, and last time I checked it is the same sun that sets in all states I have lived in. but when it comes to normal people, with there heads on straight, I will take Nebraska any day. "

 It sure is the good life... wrote on July 29, 2007 5:10 pm:
" ...to me. Of course it could be better, but so can every state. I visited Hawaii and thought "wow, this is fabulous." Then I bought some groceries and thought "WOW, that's expensive." I've visited lots of places and they all have their positives and negatives. I'm always glad to be back in Nebraska. "

 Oh Yeah... wrote on July 29, 2007 5:26 pm:
" Home is where you grew up and what you get use to. I spent 27 years in Nebraska and left when I found a better job opportunity. There is good and bad wherever you live. I did notice that people in Nebraska had a smaller view of the world both when I first moved to Nebraska and as I looked back after I moved away. Nebraskans are more dependent on the rest of the world than many like to think. Witness your recent gasoline prices, for example. Seven more years before I retire... and I'll be moving back to.... Wisconsin! The place where I was born and have my fondest memories. Everyone like to go home, don't they? "

 Fred in Phoenix wrote on July 29, 2007 5:53 pm:
" Steve Wrote" I always get a kick out of the "out-of-state" people that comment, negatively, on these subjects. If Nebraska is so bad and your current location is so great...why in heavens name are you even looking at an online Lincoln newspaper??? Shouldn't you be out surfing, or mountain climbing, or playing bingo in the Florida humidity??? I usually visit the Journal Star and Columbus Telegram on Sunday's so I can have something to talk about with reletives, friends and former business colleges - many with college degree's. Believe me our discussions about my job and what we have been doing lately are short. They don't seem to want to know how my job is going or what we are doing because it must depress them - seriously. It is not because they don't like us because they are usually the ones to call us and when we go to Nebraska for a visit we have a busy schedule in order to meet up with everyone that wants to see us. Now in most cases we usually only talk about their kids or how crapy their job is. Heck, I haven't even mentioned our new Mercedes because I don't want for them to think I am gloating. My friendship with these folks will be for a life time and early on when we moved and discovered the real differences we really pushed the conversation toward them getting out of Nebraska but as the years have rolled on we just don't bring it up anymore. What is really interesting is that I have had discussions recently from an inlaw and a friend (whom did not know each other) where they brought up the idea of getting out of Nebraska. Long story short we read the Nebraska newspapers in order to keep up on things for the sake of conversation. "

 disbelieving wrote on July 29, 2007 5:55 pm:
" I lived out of state for awhile (on the West Coast) and I thought I had a nostalgic fondness for the home where I was born and raised. Due to some unfortunate family circumstances I was forced to return home- and the nostalgia faded quickly. Nebraskans have ALWAYS been rather gossipy and intolerant, and many of their so called values come from the simple sitcom plots and advertising they watch on TV, but somehow lately this seems to have gotten much worse. I'm with you, Parting Thought. I remembered Nebraskans as being far more thoughtful, independent, practical and level-headed. Now the biggest public discussion centers around "which day is really the Sabbath", a lot of "I don't BELIEVE in that", and a lot of "Liberal vs. Conservative" remarks. I have come to really HATE this place. People here have become ugly inside and incredibly shallow. I can't wait to get out. Ba-bye to you all too. You deserve one another. "

 biv wrote on July 29, 2007 6:07 pm:
" well iam leaving cause of the stupid taxes and how horrible the city of lincoln is ran! i can move one state over and pay fraction of the taxes, more and better jobs and more activities. cant say there is a whole lot to miss here "

 Jennifer wrote on July 29, 2007 6:20 pm:
" Go Steve! Thats exactly what I was thinking. "

 All in the eye of the beholder wrote on July 29, 2007 6:29 pm:
" There are always going to be people for which Nebraska is not the best option. Nebraska is the place for me. Omaha offers many of the opportinities that a city like Chicago offers without things like commutes that take an hour. Nebraska does not offer oceans, or mountains. I find it interesting that people who have left Nebraska have went to states that lots of people have went to over the years. They have moved to places like Texas, Florida and California. People haven't left for places like North Carolina or Montana. If Nebraska is such a bad place to find a job, why do companies like Union Pacific and ConAgra stay here. Taxes are high because Omaha and Lincoln have to subsidize the rest of the state. Get rid of Western Nebraska and taxes go down significantly. "

 Will wrote on July 29, 2007 6:40 pm:
" My experience with Nebraska is not unlke Willa Cather's. I love the land but can't stand living here. I grew up here in the 1970s when Lincoln was fairly progressive, so when I came back from the East Coast I was struck by all the rusty old cars, the close-mindedness of the people, the residents' complacency about low-wages and poor treatment by employers, etc.[All pretty well summed up in the introduction to "What's the Matter with Kansas?" Nebraskans need to get rid of thier inferiority complex and demand better. "

 John wrote on July 29, 2007 6:47 pm:
" One thing that hasn't been mentioned here is the diffrences in western and eastern Nebraska. The land, people, population are totally different. Western Nebraskans are more like Wyomingites that anything else. We would gladly take our true "Western Brothers" if it wasn't for that constitution thing. If I remember right there was talk a few years back about wanting to move the Panhandle to Wyoming. "

 Mitch Fontenot wrote on July 29, 2007 6:58 pm:
" I lived in Lincoln and worked at UNL from 1987-1994 and it is my second home. I have lifetime friends there and I try and visit 3-4 times a year. Although I am home in Louisiana working for my LSU Tigers, I will always also be a Husker at hear, and am deeply appreciative of the time I was there. Go Huskers and Geaux Tigers!! "

 Jeanna wrote on July 29, 2007 8:11 pm:
" I've been in Lincoln for 18 years now. Yes it is small town, slow moving, people can be rude (although there are rude people everywhere). I'm sure not the best place to live, but it is a pretty good place to live. Everywhere you go you'll have racists, anti-gay, which is sad. That being said, I've never really been to the really small towns in Nebraska, which is what the state mostly consists of, therefore, I don't know what Nebraska is about I guess. I never have been into football, but it seems to bring out the absolute worst in people. "

 Runza??? wrote on July 29, 2007 8:15 pm:
" OMG, there is nothing more disgusting than eating a Runza, they are ultra nasty!!! "

 Joseph P. Sokolovsky wrote on July 29, 2007 9:51 pm:
" I have lived in like 12 different states and about 25 cities, and Nebraska "the good life" would rank right up there near the top. And thanks, Karwied, you nailed Luke's "poor me" attitude right on the head!! In general, Nebraskans are good people and care about each other! "

 Jason wrote on July 29, 2007 9:59 pm:
" There needs to be more to do in this state. We by far pay higher taxes than anyother state and we are the second highest in the nation on fuel prices. I have often thought about moving out of here. For retired people this is not the state to be in. "Nebraska the expensive life." "

 Joe wrote on July 29, 2007 10:36 pm:
" I hate this awful place and can not wait to leave. There is nothing to do here except for bars, crappy malls and amateur sports. I hate the Huskers and their fans, and the general closed mindeness and haughty attitue that most Nebraskans seem to profess. It's always we are better than Iowa, CA, NY, or any place for that matter. Most of you have no basis for comparison. It's the good life alright, if you love football, the 1950's, low wages, high taxes, backwards thinking, and not having an opinion of your own. "

 cu husker wrote on July 29, 2007 10:41 pm:
" all i can say is sandhills, peaceful, quiet, 15 minutes to work in lincoln, can you say wonderful? having been in colorado for 25 years nebraska is the good life. huskers! all the way. best fans in the world! "

 Taken for granted? wrote on July 29, 2007 10:55 pm:
" The one thing that I find compelling is the photo. This is the home of Arbor Day. The offices are in downtown Lincoln. Shouldn't Lincoln take advantage of this somehow? "

 Luke Peterson wrote on July 29, 2007 11:04 pm:
" I realize that some minds are made up on the issues I advocate for. But I have always wondered what would people do if they were in my shoes and had similar instances happen to them? Would they do anything different than I am?! If so, tell me and I will most certainly try. I don't need anyone's "pity." I'd rather ask for support from people who empathize, which clearly a lot of people don't. Do you know what it means to be discriminated?! Have you ever been unfairly fired from your job before with no factual basis for? Have you even had a death threat based on who you are?! If so, then let's talk. Until then keep your comments to yourselves because it's easy to through them in the cheap seats! I actually like criticism because one person told me once before "if people are talking about you, you're doing something right." "

 BK wrote on July 29, 2007 11:06 pm:
" It always amazes me the Nebraskans that say, "if you don't like Nebraska then move" or "go back to where you came from." It goes to show that to them its all about me me me me me. So you have elder people you have to look after, you don't have much choice after they've been taxed to the brink. Yeah, I know alot of you would kick 'em in the shins and could care less about them. Those people sure didn't do that to you when you were a baby or child!!! Well I guess some do this day and age or we wouldn't have all this foster care and kids not taught anything and they are into crime. I know alot of older people who's kids have moved them to the state they moved to and their friends and everything they know are gone and they are very unhappy. Would you move them to Boston or NY and give 'em the keys to the car and say you can still drive, go to the store or doctor or whatever??? My parent was so unhappy with Nebraska and wanted to move to my state, but I worked long hours and I couldn't lock the parent up in the house day after day and no one around familiar!! And with heavier traffic I sure wasn't going to let them drive. Most of the time I really wonder about Nebraskans common sense!!!! "

 Will wrote on July 29, 2007 11:19 pm:
" Joe Wrote: "It's the good life alright, if you love football, the 1950's, low wages, high taxes, backwards thinking, and not having an opinion of your own" Sounds about right. I thought I was alone on this thinking. Nice to see so many people who feel the same way. "

 I agree wrote on July 29, 2007 11:20 pm:
" Runzas do suck. It's kind of like England being proud of their culinary contributions to the world. "

 DKBG wrote on July 30, 2007 12:05 am:
" Thank you so much Brian Christopherson for the enlightening article. Your timing couldn't have been better, as I sit here amongst packing boxes, preparing for my move BACK HOME TO NEBRASKA in three days. Thank you also, to all who posted comments............even to those with whom I disagree, and to those who were downright rude, Steve, Long Gone,...........who probably lives in Texas now. (My attempt at humor). I like many have lived in several states, Colorado being one of them, where I could see the mountains out my bedroom window. Yes it was a lovely view, and for the last few years I have been in Central Texas, a stones throw from the beautiful Hill Country. All across this country, every state has something to offer. It's just a matter of choice. I have decided that HOME is my choice, and Home is NEBRASKA. What is important to me, is being there with and for my family and friends. To be near my Senior parents, to see my grandchildren grow up, to share in the sorrows and the joys. And just for the record, where was half the country enjoying the College World Series not too long ago...............OMAHA NEBRASKA. Nebraska has plenty to offer, and those who don't think so, have obviously not opened their eyes. These come to mind without having to put a lot of thought into it.....SAC and Offut AFB, UNO Medical Center, Children's Hospital, Union Pacific, Mutual of Omaha, Henry Doorley Zoo, One of the most beautiful Capital Buildings in the Country, The Sandhills out West, Nebraska City's Arbor Lodge, JUST TO NAME A FEW. And yes, I too have to mention the Runza, which I will stop and purchase in Hebron Nebraska, the closest Runza stop after crossing the state line. I also have Dorothy Lynch in my cupboard, which has traveled down the highway some 900 miles. But "you all" forgot to mention.........Zesto, Hormel Smokies, Blue Bunny ice cream, Wimmers weiners, Farmer Brown's Prime rib, Valentino's pizza, Younkers, Gordmans, Nebraska Furniture Mart and Hyvee. I look forward to the fall colors,combines rolling through the Harvest, cold weather at Christmas, and to being surrounded by RED instead of "burnt orange". I will always be a Husker, no matter where I might live. "Home is where your heart is" and mine is in Nebraska. The countdown is on. "

 James c. wrote on July 30, 2007 12:30 am:
" Its a bogus culture. I moved to L.A. long ago and soon discovered that I had been duped. the work ethic is all talk and no show. People move so slow here you can barely see them move even if you pay them for it. Lazy. Competition is fierce in L.A. but folks really have no idea what that is in Lincoln. Its as though people live in a bubble in Lincoln and get their political information from each other so they never change thinking. Just look at the front page of the Journal Star this morning. Not a word about the rest of the country or world or National news. Just very light nothing local stuff. I pity the town. "

 Herb wrote on July 30, 2007 12:36 am:
" I disagree with the idea that the best stay in Lincoln. the top of the line brains left for opportunity that is just not available here in a low pay town. Its the brains that stay here in Lincoln that just could not cut it in the real world and I think most of the college educated here know that. "

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