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What I Believe: Veronica Benton

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By COLLEEN KENNEY / Lincoln Journal Star

Saturday, Sep 08, 2007 - 03:01:14 pm CDT

Veronica Benton is 16, a junior at Pius High, a girl from two cultures.

Her mom’s side is Mexican. Her dad’s side is Irish, English and Scottish and “very traditionally American.”

Her mom’s parents came from Guadalajara, Mexico. Her grandfather was a migrant worker who came to the United States in 1952 to pick cotton and fruit.

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Her dad’s parents met during World War II. Her grandmother served in the Navy as a WAVE,  Women Accepted for Volunteer Emergency Service. Her grandfather was a sailor on the USS West Virginia, which sank in Pearl Harbor. He survived by going from boat to boat until he got to shore.

Veronica makes piñatas and dances folk dances in long, colorful dresses with her dance group, Sangre Azteca, which means Aztec blood. She sings Spanish songs in a band with her cousins.

She also runs track at school and swims for the team and gets her nails done and likes to shop with her friends. American Eagle is one of her favorite stores. She named her dogs “American names” — Kate and Fenway, Fenway in honor of her dad’s mom, who grew up in Boston and loved the Red Sox.

Veronica watches the Red Sox on TV with her dad’s side. She watches “football” with her mom’s Mexican side. To them, football is soccer.

Family picnics are a mix of hot dogs and enchiladas, blondes and brunettes.

Her parents met in college. They said their marriage vows in Spanish and English. The family jokes that maybe the vows aren’t legitimate, because her mom broke down crying as she spoke them in Spanish and never made it to the English part.

Veronica is the oldest of five. They speak Spanish and English at home. She understands more Spanish than she can speak. She still isn’t perfect in conjugating her verbs, so she’s taking Spanish at Pius. She will go to Mexico in a couple of summers to live with an aunt who’s a nun in Guadalajara.

Veronica’s family goes to St. Teresa Catholic Church except for one Sunday a month, when they go to Spanish Mass at Christo Rey Catholic Church.

Her family’s home in east Lincoln is a blend of styles. Her dad, who sells tile and granite countertops at Midwest Tile, installed terra cotta-colored tiles in the kitchen and dining room to give the home a hacienda feel. He put wooden beams on the kitchen ceiling.

Magnetic words cover the front of the refrigerator, to form sentences or poetry in Spanish.

On the stove is a comal, a Mexican grill Veronica and her mom use to make tortillas. Veronica makes gorditas and avocado dip. She also makes potato salad and chicken pot pie and BLTs, some of her dad’s favorites.

On a kitchen shelf is a heavy old crock, the kind used to cook baked beans. It came from her Boston grandma. 

Some young people from mixed backgrounds might feel torn, she says, but she believes it’s a blessing.

“I feel like they both come together to form me, who I am.”

Reach Colleen Kenney at 473-2655 or ckenney@journalstar.com.


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confused wrote on September 5, 2007 9:57 am:
" Sounds like a very nice girl with an interesting background. It's great when younger generations hold onto traditions and family culture. But what does she "believe"??? Maybe I need to listed to the audio-slideshow. "

Nina wrote on September 5, 2007 12:44 pm:
" Good for her! The more in life we can experience and celebrate, the better life will be. I'm glad she's making good use of her cultural opportunities on both sides - they're equally interesting and equally valuable. Veronica, although still a youth, could teach many adults a thing or two about appreciation of others, trying new things, and the good life. "

FĂștbol wrote on September 5, 2007 1:15 pm:
" I cringe when I see football with quotes around it. Soccer (British slang for Association Football) is a game played with a ball and the feet, so it's not entirely illogical to call it football, is it? Whereas what we call football here is really just an Americanized version of Rugby League, played with a ball and the arm, rarely involving anybody's foot. In fact, most players never even kick the ball at all. They bring specialists onto the field on those rare occasions when foot will meet ball. "

Otilio Meza wrote on September 5, 2007 2:28 pm:
" That was a very nice story.. "

Megan wrote on September 5, 2007 4:10 pm:
" That was great! Veronica is such a sweet girl! I'm so proud and happy for her! "

whatever wrote on September 5, 2007 9:11 pm:
" She seems like a nice girl, but culturally she isn't doing anything many family's weren't doing in the early to mid 20th century. I know some family's of a particulare ethnic group that would not speak to each other as some were Lutheran and some were Catholic and this was in the 60's in Nebraska, with crosses burning in the night. The kids of these families found ways to get along and hardly anyone even remembers this occurred. Of course this blending of diversity brought on other issues that we see all around us. I'm glad people are "aware" but what I find "interesting" is that it's been this way for at least 100 years and some act as if it is something new. And I will echo the same question another asked. What does she believe? And could someone please define diversity? I still submit the term is used and NO ONE knows what it means. Hey JS, do a story on the meaning of diversity. "

Point???? wrote on September 6, 2007 1:26 pm:
" This girl seems like a typical American girl & sounds nice. Has a nice family; is proud of her heritage; active in school & the community. She & her family should be proud of her success. More power to her! I guess I don't consider her to be that diverse. I know plenty of other teenagers & adults who come from 2 or 3 cultures. It's a rarity to be almost 100% of just 1 culture. This story seems to be more of a biography about her than a "belief" story. Is the "belief" that 2 cultures can be blended together within families? Is the "belief" that a teenager can be successfully bicultural? Is the "belief" that she takes pride in both sides of her family history? Is she supposed to be a role model? "

Angela wrote on September 9, 2007 11:16 am:
" To be a teenager is a lot harder than it used to be. To stand tall and know who you are and were you are going is alone an accomplishment. Yet to be doing sports, drama, school, active in church, Mexican dance and singing in Latino Festivals and an active part of a large extended family is wonderful! No it is exceptional; I guess I just viewed this article with a point of view of being proud. She is a very nice girl with a big heart and determined and yes, I would call her a roll model. How do I know? Well I am one of her many proud aunts! I believe you will do just fine in life with Gods help Veronica! Love ya Veronica! "

Stephanie Perez wrote on September 13, 2007 6:07 pm:
" Well Veronica happens to be a very good girl. and one of my good friends. and she is a great role model. love ya Veronica!! "